well, my sister is a hair dresser. I've had my hair highlighted before. nothing crazy. I have kinda dark brown hair, and she gave me lighter brown highlights. that was about 2 years ago, and I haven't had it done since. I think people can take it to the extreme, and then it looks well, worldly. or possibly gay. that's why waaaay back in the 90's it was suggested that we not get "bowl cuts" since they were associated with homosexuals.