A lot of people have a double standard including yourself? Does me defending HighSchool bother you so much because you feel like she attacked you and now I'm defending her actions towards you? I'm not saying whatever she said was right. I just don't feel it's right for so many people to be bullying against one person no matter what that person has said. There are other ways to deal with things, like I've stated in another comment on this journal. She shouldn't be allowed to make people feel bad, if that's what she's doing. But by commenting in 'return in the same manner' she has every right then to comment right back in the same manner again. So, where did that get you? Didn't your parents/guardian/kindergarten teacher (I don't know) every tell you to be the better person, that you don't always need to have the last word. Aren't we supposed to turn the other cheek when attacked? Now, you're right when you've said that she hasn't said anything mean towards me, but it's not like I haven't ever had mean things said to me by anyone before. This isn't like some super-special case that's never happened before. Things don't get better if you reply in the same manner though.