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modestjesse modestjesseOG 2004

Pray about it. Moving far away is a big challange and scary. And as my step-father told me tonight, you won't have the saftey net that you currently have. When you're feeling down out there who will you turn to? It's hard, especially when you don't know anyone.

Take a hard look at the position and your goals, especially your spiritual ones. Will this job prevent or prolong acheiving those goals? What about your girl friend? Plan on getting married anytime soon? How will a long distance relationship work? Is she willing to leave her family and friends to go out there?

It's a lot to think about, and really the only and best advice I can give you is to pray about it, over and over and over again. Don't make a decision until your sure it's the right one. I'm sure you will, and regardless, always lean on Jehovah through it all and you'll be alright. :)

perrin perrinOG 2004

Very good advice Jesse. Man it's just not going to be the same without you around here. lol
Gonna miss you man.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

Will he not have a computer? Have they not figured out how to connect hawaii (and island) to the rest of the world internet?

perrin perrinOG 2004

Talking over the computer and actually seeing someone to hang out are 2 very different things.

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