I totally understand you. What you should do in this situation is... (hehe get it, i'm telling you what you SHOULD do) ..... anyway.. I'm going thru this myself, it's only been a few days and my head is BURSTING because everyone wants to know everything and then offer their opinion on which way is better. My favorite is when they say "YOU CAN'T DO THAT AT YOUR WEDDING" Oh yeah, sorry I'm only the BRIDE!! haha
Do everything they say..only opposite. Like if they insist that you have to wear a white dress go get a purple one or something. Actually, that's not really a good idea but I just woke up and all. Congrats on getting engaged though!