I hate this kinda crap. If it's a compliment, fine. But that "WHOO, BABY!!" crap irritates me. I was leaving Taco Bell a few months ago, and my hands were full, adn as I got to the door to push it open, this tall older guy opened it for me and held it for me. I thought that was really nice, so I smiled and thanked him. He said "No problem....D*** baby, you're FINE!!"
I walked away feeling so grossed out. It turned that really nice thing he did for me, into something that made me wanna walk away from him backwards, so he couldn't look at my butt or anything. And I felt gross.
Like I said, I hate that crap.
i feel the same way. if its a compliment i think, thanks. actually, "No problem....D*** baby, you're FINE!!" seems like a compliment to me. i would just say thanks and walk away. i mean the guys that say REALLY gross things. those i cant handle.
I think it was just the way he said it. Also, he was kinda gross, so it skeeved me out. I hung around enough clubs in my "pre-witness" days, to know enough about guys to get skeeved out by a lot of them, I guess.
yeah. me not so much. im all pollyanna all the time.
Hahaha...I wish I was. I'm kidna skeptical of people sometimes, but very rarely. It's a good thing I found a great guy when I met my husband, or I doubt I'd have gotten married for a looooong time. Hahaha.
i could use a healthy dose of reality. it just doesnt seem to stick. im accustomed to others looking out for me and this is my problem.
Yeah, I totally understand. I got my dose of reality at an early age. It's tough, but it does help things sink in. I am still really trusting though, which, when it comes to friendships, has caused me to get my feelings hurt on numerous occasions.
