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yay Sep 20, 2004

i didn't look, i stopped looking. i lived life. it just happens.

sweetcaramel Sep 20, 2004

Thats the problem, for anyone that has been in a relationship before its not easy to let go....a person you may have thought to be the ONE may not be, so when you have a second chance your going to...

superhero superheroOG 2004

bah! i have the PERFECT theory for this but i know i will get critized for it ...

are you ready? It's "nothing helps you get over the last one like the next one" ...

as in ... when you a relationship ends, take the time to get over it, whine, kick stuff, take your time doing it - but when the time has come to STOP whining, JUST DO IT ALREADY. Don't keep milking it.

Then, go out, buy some new clothes or whatever, and just go out and have fun. And keep one eye open. heh.

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

I agree with this. NEXT!

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

i agree with you on this one

hunkpapap hunkpapapOG 2003

well i agree this helps your emotions, but in the long run it doesn't help to run to the next in line right away. Why did it not work? What do you need to work on? What am I really looking for?

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sweetcaramelOG 2004

Believe me....I did get to a point in my live were I was feeling pretty good for myself....everything seemed to be in order (good job,pioneering,new apt)you name it.But then everything seemed to fall apart. I got sick, and even though I'm content with my life...I feel alot of people can't see past a certain point when it comes to people or relationships.

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