the curious incident was gender neutral. reading lolita in teran was male friendly. secret life of bees = girly way girly.
reading lolita was suggested by one of the guys
oh well. it all sounds good, but I just don't have time. and I just started reading Quicksilver by Neal Stephenson,and its part 1 of a 3 book series totalling about 3,000 pages. so I don't think I'd have time to read anything else non-theocratic.
bummer would've liked your input