See now, I was out on my own for 4+ years and ended up coming back home. I think I was better off spiritually back then. My siblings are not in the truth and 2 of them live in the house and are a nuisance. I have many more headaches. I'm hoping to get out of there soon. And moving to another congregation would be a good move for me too. I've been in the same congregation for 20 years.