In line with #6, don't date us unless you're sure you can take on the responsibility of marriage and parenthood, and you have us in mind for that....the kids get attached enough as it is, and there's a good chance once you hang around long enough, they might start asking things like, sayyyyyy, "Is Adam gonna be my Daddy?" or "Are you guys gonna get married?"
Just for example, you know.
Yes... Exactly why I wrote that one. Kids want a sense of normalcy. When they don't have it, they yearn for it. Obviously single parents don't have that to give.