sometimes i have so much to say about dating, i have to tell myself to shut up, because my single friends need to experience all the joy of it on their own.
yesterday my friend was saying to me "i feel bad, i met this girl and i told her come to NY/NJ from CA to hang out, and but we realized right away when we hung out that there was nothing there". and i told him - SO WHAT?!?! That's the point of meeting people and spending time with them - so you can figure out if that's the kind of person you want to be with. Also, we live near the greatest city in the world - she got an awesome trip plus she got to hang out with cool people. what's the problem?