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starshiptrooper starshiptrooperOG 2003

How old are you? I was 19 when I got married, still am dispite the stupid things I've done that could have sabotaged my marraige. We just celebrated 27 yrs together. One thing I would do over is not have kids. Its too much heartbreak and pain. Satan is working SO hard on everyone to fall away, but I've seen so many young ones leave b/c they want to experience the world.
but congraduations on your wedding day!!!!

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

haha thank you! NO KIDS!

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

I want an army... of 2 being all they can be. haha imagine me with kiddos. they'd be so messed up . we'd go trick or treating in like april.. just going door to door asking for candy in the middle of spring.. it'd be fun. we wouldn't be celebrating any holiday. it's all good. who wants me to babysit their kids?

tinser tinserOG 2002

you could babysit my kids if you want thai

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

your kids would be my kids

tinser tinserOG 2002

exactly....you never watch them...i watch them, feed them, put them to sleep...c'mon...take some responsibility for them

starshiptrooper starshiptrooperOG 2003

umm.....u agree? thought I might get torched for what I said.
if anyone wants to see what its like to raise teen girls, they can borrow mine, option to keep.
Oh btw mango, ur my fav fruit and I love your websight URL!!!
HYSTERICAL!

malibu malibuOG 2001 offtopic

you regret having kids? i would just say not to have them while you're younger and to wait.

starshiptrooper starshiptrooperOG 2003

i was 26 with the first and 31 with the 2nd....not so young at all.

theremin thereminOG 2002 offtopic

oo. Don't let your kids read your post.

malibu malibuOG 2001

that's what i was thinking. i think i would cry for weeks and have much deep rooted emotional problems if i found out my parents wish they didn't have me.

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

for kicks--ask them to honestly answer these questions: "did you have me on purpose or was i an accident? was i planned or was i just a product of heated passion and contraceptive unpreparedness?" tell them they have to answer truthfully under God's blue sky. if my mom said she wished she never had me--"i'd say, sucks for you, but i'm here and i freaking rock! i define you! I'M THE BEST THING THAT'S EVER HAPPENED TO YOU!"

ok4now ok4nowOG 2002

i keep asking my mom, "so really, where IS my older brother?" (hint: supposedly, i'm the oldest)

starshiptrooper starshiptrooperOG 2003

i was an *accident*, I don't care, i wish they'd have used birthcontol that night. try having a kid who was SO theocratic till she graduated H.S. then got into all sorts of trouble no matter how hard she was helped by the *powers that be* and then get d/fed and every other word out her mouth is f***.
Try raising another who is a *guy magnet*.
We did ALL WE COULD that the society recommends. Elders and pioneers got involved. Always had a family study.Never miss meetings or service. Parents quite iMperfect, admit it, but kept trying.
Heartache.
I didnt wish I had didn't have kids,i said i WOULDNT have em.
Anyway, I'm getting back all the *heck* I gave my parents. Which actually was way worse then even was what kid #1 is giving me. Cept I wasnt brought up a JW so it IS different.
OK NOW WAKE UP!

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