sugar & spice & everything nice???

Not in this case. I know many a time you hear a male say that all chicks are "psycho" Well in this case I must concur.

I have a male best friend who is the brother i never had. We've known each other for almost 20 years and I totally look out for his best interest with everything in life (and he's the same with me), i think I'm more protective than his fleshly sisters (whom i have a great freindship with also)

He's a great guy, so I'm always keeping an eye out for that perfect sister for him. Someone who's not jelaous of guy/girl friendships, etc and who will not be jealous of me being around him. I must add by stating he has NO poblems meeting sisters, i just don't want him to settle with one that will get all weird, needy etc. So i'm the one there to give him the advice on which one is "real" or which one is "fake"

So this brings me to this one sister that I met through a mutual friend. She was gorgeous, seemed nice and seemed like a good spiritual sister. Immediately i thought of my friend. So later in the week our group of friends got together so I invited her along. What do you know, they hit it off. They look great together were totally in sync, making each other laugh, just perfection.

They exchanged emails/#'s etc. and she and I got to know each other also. She asked questions about him (since i know his deepest darkest secrets)etc so I share bits of fun facts about him, etc.

Well it turns out that she's one of the most neediest girls around. My friend wants to get to know her as his friend (which is the right way) but along the lines seeing where it will take them. Well she is SO insistant on knowing where the relationship is going etc., calls him like several times a day, gets mad when he doesn't respond to her emails, text messages him, when she was in our close knit group of friends, she made NO effort to get to know anyone (bad move) and its annoying. I've stressed to her, he's stressed to her of the "friendship first" but she needs to know NOW about a relationship.

Crazy....so he and I have been discussing this. She's weird. He's freaked, so am I and she is pushing away what could've been the greatest relationship. This girl went from cool to crazy in like a matter of hours.

So yes, most girls are psycho.....BUT....not all. There are some of us few who are cool calm and collect and this is RARE but there are some of us out there.

Anyway, i just needed to vent and want you males to realize there is a chick here who can agree with you guys, some girls are psycho.