Lets Just Be Friends
by Okay ive been thinking about this questions for a long time Is it really true that after a guy and girl break up they can still remain friends?..
Ive seen some try to remain friends but end up with a torn friendship is it really so that guys and girls can be friends....
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i've never seen it work....ever
if two people see each other neked.. i think it's hard.. otherwise.. why not
I also think that it depends on whether or not you were friends before you started dating. If you really weren't and just dated, then its almost impossible to go back to something that you never had. If you had a good friendship with the person to begin with, then its possible to get it back
yes..i agree w/ that. i also think that they'll never go back to being CLOSE friends unless its a few years down the road and both are dating or married.
I think whether or not you can remain friends with your ex depends or why you broke up. If you broke up because you or both realized that you just weren't in love, or weren't each other's type, its possible to remain freinds, because you basically are having the same relationship without the pressures of dating. However, if you broke up because you find out one or both have major flaws, or are immature, etc... it is almost impossible to remain freinds, because you had to share a creul honesty with each other that can even be tough for family to survive. Because JW's are cautious going into relationships, we often break up because of flaws, and so its more common for the friendship to die with the relationship.
Okay I have two cases:
In one, the guy broke up with me and said we'd be friends, but we are not.
In the other, I broke up with the guy and said we'd be friends, and we are.
But why didnt it last in the first case and did in the second
i'm not sure...i was just saying that it's always different
Yeah, it is different for every relationship (not that I have been in many, cuz I haven't). But, I think it depends on the maturity of the people involved. Even if the one person wants to stay friends, if the other can't handle it, it isn't going to happen. Also, I think it depends on what all went on while the people were dating (and how long). And how much of what went on was told to friends that kinda got spread around. All important factors.
In regards to the guy who you are not friends with, are y'all not friends anymore because you can't be freinds, or because you just looked up one day and weren't freinds anymore?
actually it's because he won't
OOOO girl he wants all or nothing..
ding ding ding we have a winner. that's also why i got dumped.
Oh thats a shame.. you got dumped.. your in my prayers.
hahah thanks but i'm okay by now. this was years ago.
maybe its just because of your point of view. the person that did the breaking up still thinks they are friends?
in the case that we are still friends? yes he does.