Cuddly N' Comfy or Too Close for Comfort?
by So...cuddly n' comfy or too close for comfort? A lot of stuff has changed about so called "dating etiquette" yet certain things might never change. There will always be the occasional In my day... or I can remember when....
What are there things that just rub us the wrong way? or What are the things we don't mind?
Classic examples:
Can't believe she just picked off my plate.
Does he have to sit so close?
They get it we're together...let me breathe!
It's so cute when he picks his nose.
The way she just burped, wow she's sooo free.
Okay slightly exhagerating but, you get the point!
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on the flip side i hate when a person despises or ridicules a couple for any form of affection. I mean someone who complains to you about two people 'holding hands too much' and the like. Genuinely upset of simple displays of affection.
I mean 95% of the time i can guarantee you they are single and are a)bitter or b) have always been single and so it usually results from jealousy.
sometimes, but not really, there are peeps that genereally are not affectionate people and are annoyed by any affection shown by others.
hm, im not a HUGE PDA fan... like... couples that are all over each other married or not, just creeps me out. Ive been the third wheel for many a couple... and thats the WORST, and your just chillin in the back seat pretending to look ANYWHERE but at them.
hahaha... so awkward. although some couples are worse than others. like andrew and janine, i always remember they were so totally cool when they were dating. they never made anybody feel uncomfortable when u were hanging out with them, and now theyre happily married. a great example.
what?! im not a good example?!?!?!?!
you were good too. actually you were better AFTER you got engaged. although you 2 never acted stupid, just that nobody ever SAW you
hahaha, i will admit that, when i was dating katie i was at school too... i did, school 7 to 4, work 5 to 9... homework 10 to 3 then back to school again... i ususally went to work, crashed at katies house till 1 then drove home falling asleep the whole way. After I got engaged i actually got more sleep, so it was nice.
that sounds completely deadly
i find nothing wrong with PDA, i'm all about it.
but if it's 3 people locked in a room and the third person is left watching, thats not PDA. thats putting on show..
which i have no problem with either.
HOOOO RAHHHHHH
i hate it when people come out to eat at a restaurant and sit and swap fluids.
one time this couple was really lovey all night then right as their food got there they rushed out of the restaurant only to return a few minutes later looking happy. i wanted to barf on their food when they came back.
This journal is so cute!! all bout doing a little kissy kissy
I find myself to be a very affectionate person, however theres a time and place for everything. Nothing like sitting on the couch watching movie or sports... just relaxing with someone you love. You don't even have to say a word..all about enjoying the moment of spending time together.
i love manners: letting the lady sit first, door holding open, that sort of thing. (side point: one guy always manages to sandwich me between his arms when opening the door. example: im in front of him, he opens the left door with his right hand and then to let me through has to pass the door to his left hand momentarily creating a hug. its lovely. ahh bliss.) however, unless there is some deeper understanding or a great disparity of income, i dont see why the male should ALWAYS pay. backpedaling: its not expected but i appreciate it. i will never frown on getting treated.
Oh, he's smooth...
old trick. and a little smarmy. totally something those dudes on Night at the Roxbury would do, while smashing their pelvises into you.
who said anything about pelvi? not me. why do you always have to blow my innocense up anyway? cant you just let me think something is sweet for a change?
Oh, so you've never seen Night at the Roxbury. Sorry.
I've seen it GOOD TIMES...
What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me... no more and head jerk NOW :-D
why is techno soooo stupid?
You don't know me, you're too old. Let go, it's over cuz NOBODY listens to techno!
It's funny cause I know there was a time when it was actually considered the stuff but, it's fun to bust out to like "WOE where's that going?" LOL!
daft punk is where it's still at...
Definitely. Techno is insanely derivative nowadays. Nothing new or exciting going on. Lo-Fi techno is what really gets me now. Daft Punk tho--Classic.
that and AIR is great. They have it all, slow, tance, catchy, etc...it just goes on.
i luv to cuddle...but i don't like when a guy is like a back pack on you....let me breathe!
Breathe, stretch, shake, let it go!
whats' wrong with cuddling. it's good times and great oldies.
speaking of cuddling and "great oldies", has anyone ever seen harold and maude? One of the single most wacky, and disturbing movies of all time. Geez.
what about playing footsy?
It's not that I think it's inappropriate but, I could see where it could be annoying to either person. Then again everyone is different... I guess it depends on what the person is like. Good one!
I think it's highly overrated.
I agree, kicking your SO (significant other) is so much more fun!
oh yeah, kicking is SO much fun!
footsy's is retarded. case closed.
but foot massages are great.
i think its something that would be associated with dating, same as holding hands
But sometimes people hold hands even if they aren't "technically" dating, like if they are just flirting with a guy or something.
oh, i didn't put my opinion...hm, i think its a mix between funny and gay...depending on how seriously a person means it
ATTENTION: If I Like Birds wants a piece of me he can come and get it!!! Bring it on , I WILL TAKE YOU DOWN FOR CORRUPTING MY BEAUTIFUL THREAD WITH YOUR LIES AND DECIET!!! (GRRRRRRR rips apart golden fluffy pancake with bear teeth)
I sense some mild resentment here but I could be wrong. lol
you need to know and understand birds...his comments are a breath of fresh air, no motif behind just to make us warm and fuzzy all over
Warm and fuzzy is one thing birds is NOT
what i'm SO warm and fuzzy. just like you.
you're so charming and disarming, desirable and sweet.
one gaze at you sweeps me off my feet !
But are these comments based in reality or simply a very disturbing figment of his twisted imagination? (Food for thought)
Who knows...for the most part I thinks it's all a load of funny nonsense but sometimes I have reason to believe he's for real.
Ty will suprise you from time to time with an amazingly insightful comment but for the most part his comments are just funny.
what is reality? isn't all the perception one has contained in oneself. Isn't the ideals and notions that have been learned through life and experience. Thus isn't reality different to all peoples? Thus isn't michael jackson weird?
HAHAHAHA. You really cracked me up with that last part.
aww you're so cute when you're angry. lets go get some food.. maybe thursday?
BOOOO you!!! You've corrupted not only my beautiful thread but Alana is now buying into you're crazed stories (squeels with displeasure) :-|
I am, aren't I? Can someone throw me a rope?
can i just say
that you're kissable and cuddle, desirable and true
all i ask for is a lifetime with you
Yes! Someone's ACTUALLY MACKING in the macking forum! Woo-hoo!
you're cheating on me before my eyes!
no i'm not!...
see it's like the SUN. everyone loves the SUN because it's hot.
now the SUN is like your hair, because it's sometimes hairy.
Now you take that... mix it around a bit.. and really i'm not cheating on you.
Because... you are loveable and cuddly, beautiful and sweet
on you, i would never cheat!
Why don't you join the never ending rap (I meant rap) already?
i dont get it. whats right? whats wrong?
*besos*
Ok what about putting your hand in your guy/gal's rear pocket?? Does anyone do this?
Unless your married I think that's a little too..well..hm.. I'm not really sure what word I want here but yeah it's a little too that.
It's a little, over-the-top? too much? Yea, and I don't think it would be too comfortable either. It's like people who smoke to look cool. Couples only do that to look cool. Or get a McFeely...
Yeah that's it.
The "picking off of the plate" i am NOTORIOUS for this, i have no problems with this but it jsut made me laugh because i do this with ones i'm close too
but seriously, i dont' like guys who are in love with love. They can fall in love with anyone at anytime. it's jsut not genuine
Or how about guys who fall in love after 5 minutes with a person. When someone has just met someone and says they are in love it drives me crazy.
oh yeah that too.
I'm in love with you...Ha! This would have had a better effect if it came from, let's say..i like birds.
Yeah that's for sure I could totally see ty making that comment. lol
Okay okay my turn... I think it's sweet when you massage the back of your guy/girls neck or rub their back, it's not too touch feely, just nice.
agreed. free massages are great!
This topic is mad sticky. People will disagree all day. I'll just come in here and make jokes!
Yeah um... that's the point to hear the different opinions.
i have no problem with her picking my nose. that'd be grreat
I hate it when she's all "thai lets make out" and i'm all "yo hunny i'm brushing my teeth" and she's all " so what " and i'm all *punch her in the face and run*
She prolly hates it when you're breath is toxic, that's all. She only wants to kiss you immediately after you've brushed.
no, i just brush my teeth naked all the time.. it's just one of those things.. and the door is always open..
Right right... cause this ALWAYS happens to you :-p
a lot. i also hate it when i'm sitting there eating a sandwich and she pushes on the other end and it splatters all over my face. thats not too bad. but then she spits on me and says " i dont want your babies! "
Yikes, who are you dating? Chyna?
it's alright. because when she sleeps at night.. i pinch her softly until she gets annoyed and wakes up .. and as he wakes up i pretend i'm taking a pillow and covering her face.
she gets all mad.
ok he or she? I'm confused..
she's 80% she, but 20% he
see she was a hemproghaoditie
LOL Oh my...is that scriptural for you to be dating..that..?
oh i broke up with her last night. and told her to take her kids with her!
Wow, I never thought about "hemproghaodities" having kids. Can they? If you don't mind me asking, what happened?
we were sitting there watching tv as usual... and sasha started yelling bloody murder. so i ran into the bedroom and there was my lady standing slapping sasha. apparently something happened and i dont approve of child slapping so i poured the milk i was drinking on the lady and kicked her out.
I think I'm sorry I asked..? [mildly amused]
Okay Thai... I think this is ALL an elaborate ruse.
I've seen your kind before I know what you're like LOL!!!
LIYAAAAAAAAAAAAAA, story teller, fabricator of elaborate ruse.
:-P
no, i have aides for that
so what you're saying is... thai is making ruse
personally i can't stand when a guy won't let his date dance with anyone else. If they dance with each other all night that is fine, I've been there. But if she wants to dance and isn't allowed, that is wrong...
This is true. If the guy can't dance, he should at least be willing to humiliate himself a little and then allow her to dance with someone else sometimes.
i don't like this either. its just dancing
that's true. but in certain cultures it means more. like we were hearing about how in the spanish hall by us they have local needs all the time about not dancing with other people's wives and stuff.
oh yeah, my parents are like that. they don't dance with anyone but each other. i told them they were jsut old school. lol
I don't like it when a guy rests his head on me and starts acting like a little baby. I'm allowed to do that (not that I necessarily do) but he is NOT.