I like you a whole lot...
by but I dont like you back! what do i say o someone who really likes me but i don't feel the same way back??? what do i say?????
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well, give the truth a shot. say thank you, i appreciate your interest, but i do not like you! and then illustrate the reasons: you're *beep*, you're annoying, you're phoney, shallow and vapid, or whatever happens to be the case. honesty, ekulu.
but what if she's great? just not exactly the person you expected to feel that way about you?
refer to my above post. perhaps tailor your answer. implement kindness and tact if needed..
hahaha
so i guess beggers CAN be choosers!
so, that also means that LOSERS, in fact, CAN be CHOOSERS as well
It usually never hurts to let the truth out. I say just tell them, as long as you can manage it in a nice way, because sometimes you might not want to alienate them.....
I actually agree with you . . . by the way . . . I don't think this is going to work . . .
That's such a lie! The truth hurts, it just doesn't hurt as much as lying and then finding out later.
*beep*.... i love it. .... and i am it.
oops. *beeb* sorry
I'm going to have to go with 5-0 on this one . . . honesty is always the best policy . . . and though I've also been down the road of using girls . . . those are not my proudest days, especially if the girl is great . . . you especially don't want to ruin a good friendship with a lie . . . if you two are indeed friends . . .
i could tell you what they tell me
matt don't tell them what i said, that was said in confidence. ;)
Avoid all confrontation, move to another state.
ha ha, These comments are funny
are you seriously going to break my heart again... i'm too fragile for this.
Dispite all the excellent ideas, heres another one. Use Her. you can get her to do things for you, rub your feet, take out the garbage, mow the yard, and when your done say, "honey, i don't know if this is going to work out." and then laugh all the way to the bank
ha ha, if she's dumb enough to fall for it, go for it!
man-o-man, guys! using girls is so...underrated..
ha ha, who are you , i dont beleive you use girls as much as you think you do , & that your so vocal about it!
Yeaahh, no. I'm joking. I don't use girls ever. It's a pretty heartless practice--to use girls and know it and talk about it. I'm not down with that, Reaf. I'm Brian. What's your name?
you know what i think?? make a sidekick out of her. every guy needs a sidekick. someone to chip in for gas and tolls, someone to bring to parties so you dont' walk in by yourself. someone to buy the cds that that you're too poor to pick up, so you can copy them. if you get tired of her, just upgrade to a better model sidekick.
Adam, I've been in situations where I ended up not liking a girl that originally, I was the one to get the whole thing moving. I lost interest as soon as I gained hers. I never meant to be that way, but that's what used to happen. So I've had experiences similar to yours--where the girl liked me, and I didn't like them like that (any more). When I was a lot younger, I handled it completely wrong--I just avoided her, and stopped calling her back. BIG BAD MISTAKE! That's not how anyone should ever be treated. Talk to her. Be Honest. Besides, you never know, because things might change between you later on, and you might want to be with her.
punch her in the face. she should get the point. if not. you'll be in prison and you'll make new, bigger, and better girlfriends. but at least she'll be off your back.
Or you could try to get her in jail.
ha ha ha ha ha
what you could do is go with the old reliable...ya know... the christian politically correct answer...." Your very nice..." that right there is a clear indication that you don't like them... and if she needs more... tell her that your really not interested in dating anyone at this time..you dont feel its the right time...
so let me get this straight, your opinion is not to lead them on and use them for attention? Ok, just checking...
it called getting to know them .....................................................................(HI my name is Pat... nice to meet you.... i love you wanna go out with me and add to my psycho ex girlfriend legacy)
Take her out to an expensive restaurant. Order everything on the menu and say the world is our oyster baby. She orders lots. you eat, drink, have a good time. Then when the bill comes, take a dump on her plate and make a run for it. All the time screaming " I can't believe you fell for that, you stupid smelly gorilla!!"
Then call her the next day, apologize, and ask if she wants to start over. Repeat this process every night.
i might be crazy... but that probably isnt the way to go..
dude.. you are definately NOT a stinking tree huggin hippie. that is the first comment on ezabel that had me laugh hard in awhile. i thank you sir.
you certainly are granted a kind welcome!
i really like this idea. and believe me it works!
I'm not sure if this has ever been used before, but you could say "Its not you its me."
hey, did you make that up???
yeah, it came to me in a conversation...er...dream
somebody once said to me, "Its not me, its YOU" . . . needless to say, the emotional scars from THAT still haven't healed . . .
LOL
Just say ( While your looking at her funny) "Umm No thanks, thats okay, but I hope we can still be friends" Then give that great big, how ya doing kid, smile!
or say " boo.. look at you.. and look at me.. i'm upp here.. you're down here.. you feelin' me ? it's just not gonna work boo. peace "
You come up with the weirdest things
i love his sense of humor....he can get away with saying things in which i would get flambayed (spelled phoneticly) for.
you kidding me.. i get "flambayed" everyday. just ask ian how many comments of mine he just shutters even thinking about.
and i'm glad you like my humor. not too many people do.
And then you were beat senseless for calling her "boo"
hey boo. relax.
oh no dont call me boo... i am no one boo, baby girl, hot legs or any other cat call/ pet name you could think of...
what about sugar plum or pooh bear ?!
this is a budding relationship. the warmth is just bubbling over
yea i can tell, wait till you say honey or sweetcheeks.... your gonna be in for it THEN!
its never happened to me either, buuut, i can say, if you want to get outta it without a confrontation... you would probably stray away from anything that tai says...
ohh man i got censored again. once, shame on me. twice, shame on you. three times, nothing but a bunch of tree hugging hippies
well i know it might be hard to communicate back to the doll...it may seem that it's just staring at you and not listening. but... just try to tell it. " NO MORE !"
eww someone likes you adam
who is it so i can slap some
sense into her... :-P
see now, i immediately thought it was a guy
hahahaha that was so amazing! And even though I don't know your voice inflections or gestures or even know what you look like BUT i can just hear it being said and it sounded awesome.
Adam, explain to her that you just don't feel the same way and you know that it may hurt to hear that but you didn't want to lie with her and just go along with it because that would be even worse.
so adam howd this work out?
still lookin for a date, huh, matt?
HA! something like that dan
well basicaly i told hwer she was a great person but i'm not interested. then she told me she'd be willing to wait for me
so she's a great person. we covered the personality.. so question is... SHE WASN'T HOT WAS SHE ?
why would ekulu not like her back if she was hot...she must have been 4 11, vietnamese, and male
wow.... the ego on you!
adam tell me who it is its not (_____) ;-) some1 in ur congregation that chick with the big ole butt...
HEY HEY HEY!!!!!!!!!!! watch you're mouth................... the word is hottie