Ben Sheets #2
by I was thinking today about something. I had this guy stalk me for years and years and years like since I was in high school. I mean we are talking a real psychopath. Anyways this guy got really mad at me over the fact that I confronted him on how he was treating my girlfriend. Anyways she was telling me that he was constantly trying to take advantage of her in derogitory ways. It really made me upset so I confronted him about it. What made me mad was how he confronted me about it. He was online and telling me "oh yeah your girlfriends a slut and shes the easiest thing ever and thats why its all good"......................
Now I don't know about you but at this point I was mildly upset but it was his continual harrassment of women that got to me. I had another girlfriend later on who knew him and she told me a lot of the same stuff and it was pretty gross. Also several of my female acquaintences had all told me the same thing. I could tell what he was always targeting. Usually it seemed that he targeted shy and naive sisters who would be too scared to go and tell someone like an elder. Then I decided to go and see if it was all really true. I observed his behavior with a female and sure enough although he had no clue I was watching it was all true. When I finally confronted him about all this garbage he flipped out and started making serious threats to me such as getting all his friends to come after me and stuff. I mean it wasn't like he was intimidating me because I knew he was mostly all talk and no action. Just after this confrontation there were the constant phone calls at 4 AM to my house, unwanted phone messages, threatening emails, and even him going to places of worship he knew I would be at just so he could sit behind me and stare.
What continues to float around in my head is the big question of how do you deal with a person like this? What should be done? I would not expect anyone to take sides over the he said she said stuff but it just seems like a person such as this is dangerous to be around.
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contrived fiction
what are you talking about? you don't even know these people
hush, peanut
I dont know who you are. Nor do I care. But if you want to explain to me why you are acting this way to me then please do so. I would seriously like to have an explanation. If not then just please don't even make comments after I say something. This is a community for JW's and we are supposed to be nice to one another. If I said something to you on this that you did not like then I am sorry. Just please stop this nonsense. Just drop me an Ezabel message in my inbox and I will be happy to respond. But this is seriously unnecessary.
#4, dont worry about it. he attacked me for responding to one of your posts once because i said something about ben sheets. so maybe hes not lashing out at you, but hes angry because of his frustration that he wishes he was ben sheets, and he isnt ben sheets.
yeah and Ben Sheets is the official athlete of ezabel.
throw baseballs at him like ben sheets
Ben Sheets can throw 18 baseballs at me.
Aviator sounds like a personal problem and maybe its time you get over it.
for someone who hasn't been in the situation maybe you should take a step back and put yourself in my shoes. :)
Belive me I have been in the situtaion. Belive it or not its very simlar to yours. I felt it was best to forgive the person instead of throwing wood on the fire. you know what i mean like for example physically destroying the other person to a point where no recognizes them. If a person is like the way you describe him, well he will be evtually exposed for the person he really is no matter what identity he hides behind.
See a person like that probaly has little or no friends. The ones he has will eventually leave him, no one likes a pyschopath.
If that person is actually dong what you say he, will be caught. Or someones gonna slap it shut.
So in the end its best to just let him run his course so you can remain christian in your attitude toward your brothers. Because poeple like that make many enemys along the way and no friends.
sorry i don't wanna get in the middle of anything, BUT
B E L I E V E is spelled like that - okay you may continue.
identity! whew. such a long story regarding that, dude. this kid is the most evil and maliciously talented master-manipulator i've EVER seen. you'd think he tricked eve herself.
this has absolutely nothing to do with being in my situation. And for someone who hardly uses this website you seem awful eager to speak to me. I mean you asked me to ellaborate on the history of grunge music and you have called me stupid. So why should I listen to you?
Son I have been on this site way before you. Check the dates. You must be following me. Just because I dont comment doesnt mean I dont obsereve and read. My other name is guilderbell on this site not guilderbellsucks. Which I might add we all no your are the proprietor of. Can I get an amen!!!!!!!!
Yeah kid stop fronting before the doggpound gets you.