recently.....
by So like every other person i know is getting married...literally. Even my friends friends. I was kinda just thinking it was the time of year..spring or whatever...but now i'm realizing it might be my age. 21..early 20's...when i was like 18 barely no one was getting married.... My plans were to get married at like 24 or 5. This was mainly because my mom got married at 29 so I didn't want to marry that Old but I didn't wanna be too young either, it seemed like the perfect age. I have things i wanna do & i honestly don't think i could do them if i were married. Dono why i think that way but i do... Maybe its foolish to plan for somehting as important/big as that. It probly won't even work out that way. Who knows..? I think a lot of our thoughts on marriage stem from what we see of our parents marriage. My moms against young marriages & tho i'm not against them I don't think i would marry young myself, so it does have some type of influence on me whether i want it to or not. ok, thats it...tell me what ur thinking ;)
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way to be fun and single!!
^^^ married within 1.5 years
do you know something i don't?
ian shut up
two words: princess cut haha i love you b!
I didn't think I'd be getting married at 21. I planned on 24 or 25 too, after college, settling into my own life. But I fell in love with my fiance and now I want to be with him all the time. It's all about that one person you want to share your life with.
when you're a playground, all you really need is yourself - though the see-saw is kinda useless alone . . .
i'm totally against young marriages. this is SOLELY my opinion and what i've observed and what i've gone through with my friends.
there's a time in you late 20's when you change. you think a lot differently, your tastes change. things you once thought were the absolute best suddenly become the worst and vice versa.
i have a ton of friends who are no 25, 28, 33 (everything in between) who got married between the ages of 18-22 and now are divorced or are getting divorced and its sad to say at 28, i've been married 8 years and divorced 2. its sad
only now do i feel like i'm coming around to somewhat find someone and settle down. No age is ever too old, it's when you know who you are and what makes YOU happy, then you can make someone else happy
again this is MY opnion
whoah you've been married? learn somethin new every day! Sorry to hear about it tho :(
i think it depends on each person, everyone's different, there are some very mature 20 year olds out there and some very immature 30 year olds. heh. I think it depends.
OH NO! i've never been married....sorry if thats what you thought. it's just what has happened with friends and family members.
ohhhh haha the way your comment is worded confused me
haha i get it now... duhhh
i still dont get it, it sounds like you were married and divorced...
i think what she meant to say was :
and its sad to say at 28, "i've been married 8 years and divorced 2". its sad
that it's sad to say that, at that age
not, it's sad to say, this happened to me
thank you chica!
HAHAHAHA i just re-read what i wrote and the last part I was speaking in the "third person" but i didn't use quotes. HAHAHA sorry for misleading.
I ALMOST got married, when i was 21, but now that i'm older i am SO thankful because i have been through so many changes. even though i was mature for my age, but there's a whole different level you reach.
yea thanks for saying NO to me, jerk!
i'm sorry hun....ask again, with a bottle of cristal and i'll say yes!
i only like chicken selects. not those "new nuggets".
alright, all I've got to say is that I have no regrets of not getting married young, but it's quite disturbing to see everyone get married so young--because that leaves no one for me :)
Not that I'm looking.
i guess its cool that people are finding people they can be happy with. all i say is, learn to be happy by yourself first. cuz if you're not happy by yourself, you'll never be happy with anybody else either.
really good advice
one of the things on my list of reasons for moving out =)
wow, that was the other thoughts i was having....whos gunna be left? of course now there seems like theres gunna be a whole lot of divorcee's around but i dono if i even wanna go there.....scary*
it's ok, i'm thinking of starting the i'm never going to get married club. No such thing as a lifetime membership tho..
The AAA club. ;)
thats what i decided. i don't want to get married
this system is so difficult that it really is best to use your youth wisely-find yourself, do everything you wanted to do, don't worry about being 'old'. And THEN, the right person will fall into your life and you will have no problem knowing. There is no age limit on when that happens. Be happy until then.
do you think it's possible to be in love with someone else and not even know it?
In this life, there are nothing but possibilities. :) Love that movie!
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you know, i used to always say the same thing...that i wasn't going to get married until i was like 25 at the youngest, because everybody else in my family waited until then. i think i've changed my mind, haha
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OH YEAH, i love that place!
Indeed it does. I had their avocado, tomato, chicken, lettuce, and bacon sandwhich. Heavenly!
I think seriously looking for someone just because you want to get married might not be the best idea. Naturally falling in love with someone is another story. Marrying young will certainly have its downsides. It's a completely different life with responsibilities a younger person might not be mature enough to handle. Of course, waiting too long may make it harder to adjust to living with someone, esp. if you are used to living alone.