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reaf by reaf · Jul 30, 2004 · 685 views · Journal

this is mostly for the ladys, but guys can answer it to. ha

How often do you do these things?

I was just thinking about this this morning when i ran out of my house with no make up, jeans , tank, flip flops and hair a bit frizzy.
I grew up in a house where looks didnt really matter, i mean keep your self presentable ya know, but dont make it priority. so doing this is very often for me, I dont think twice about it. I don't even care who I see.

like my mom would drop my sister off in her pink bathrobe with her long leather coat over it,no make up no nothing, and it was just the most histerical thing, and she didnt care at all. it was great!

I personally like the more natural beuty in a girl. Less is more, don't need the glitz and glam, same for guys too. Like i couldnt imagine having to put makeup on before anyone saw me, even my husband and friends, please, just give me a shower so I atleast dont smell like sleep. It just seems like a lot of work, I duno, but I do like getting dressed up and decked out occasionaly when the ocasion is right.

Anyway I was wondering how many other people do these things like this and dont even think twice about it.

be honest too!

I answered the polls to!

come to think of it,my friends are like this to.

side note, my best friend my sister, now that we are both married and live ridiculously far apart so we hardley see each other, everytime we get together its the same thing, nothing but good timees and we think sooo much a like still. It's great

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yay #1 yayOG 2004

i can braid my belly hair

beachbum #2 beachbumOG 2002

ugh, i detest makeup. i didn't even wear it for my own wedding-just lipstick. and usually i end up combing my hair in the car at red lights on the way to whereever i'm going. like you said, presentable is good, but no need to spend hours on it. wash and go!

reaf #2.1 reafOG 2002

ha ha, sometimes, i dont even brush my hair, if it gets in the way ill through it up in a hair stick, i cant drive and do hair or anything cuase i need a wheel alignment sooo bad

i dont know how some people can put make up on in the car while driving i cant even put it on while im in the passanger seat

I do know a girl who can braid her own hair and drive, :)

beachbum #2.1.1 beachbumOG 2002

haha yeah i have a stick to and it's impossible for me to do my hair and drive. i have to be a passenger or at a red light. but thank goodness i have 100 hair ties around my shift for the days i don't feel like combing or don't have time.

reaf #2.1.1.1 reafOG 2002

ha ha, yeah i have them around my wrist

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

hahaha all three of us are like totaly dominating this journal

juicymango #3 juicymangoOG 2003

haha this kinda cracked me up hahaha... I'm not much of a makeup wearer. I like eye makeup and that's about it. Bronzer type stuff sometimes is good cos i'm pale-skinned and it's not fun, and the sun gives you cancer. But like, foundation, BLEH, lipstick, i detest it. The smell of lipstick makes me sick. haha... i'm not really a girl i don't think.... i don't like getting "dressed up" and i cannot wear heels for my life. At my wedding I was really annoyed that i had to wear a big poofy dress and be all fussed over. Bleh. annoying.

i'm more into like skin-care and stuff and looking healthy and natural, and plus i'm not really a huge fan of wrinkles, so it would be cool if i get less wrinkles because i don't really tan and i don't wear tons of makeup and i don't have kids. Haha

juicymango #3.1 juicymangoOG 2003

my mom and I got into a pretty rediculo fight before my wedding because she was SO APPALLED that I didn't want to wear lipstick at my wedding. haha it was pretty funny. I think I wound up wearing some just to make her stop.

beachbum #3.1.1 beachbumOG 2002

haha i know, every one was shocked that i wouldn't wear any. they are like "but it's your WEDDING". so does that mean i have to look like a made up clown or different than i normally do? i didn't want to walk down the aisle and have andrew be like 'who the heck is THAT?' haha.

reaf #3.1.2 reafOG 2002

i think i had eyemakeup on and chapstick, i know i didnt wear lisptick cause i dont even own lipstick

reaf #3.2 reafOG 2002

I DETEST FOUNDATION, i feel like its cloging up my face to breath and live and exist.\

yeah lipstic smell is gross,,
chapstick yummy, and some lipglosses

beachbum #3.2.1 beachbumOG 2002

i agree about the foundation-though i think i only tried powder once or twice. i felt so dirty.

i will only wear the lipstick that smells like hazelnut and has moisterizer for the winter. yummy.

socalgal #3.3 socalgalOG 2003

thats the most important to me is skin care. i'm totally into moisturizers etc cause it all starts with your skin.

socalgal #3.3.1 socalgalOG 2003

and i'm all over the sunscreen. i have to cause i'm always out in the sun and water.

reaf #3.3.1.1 reafOG 2002

the past year maybe 2 years, i have been all about the sun block, its super easy for me to get tan so i dont even worry about not getting tan, wheni was younger, i was all about the baby oil, ha ha,, for like a summer, never got burned though

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

thats good to hear. i hate it that most girls who spend tons of time in the sun don't use sunblock. scares me. then they wonder why at 21 they look like they're 41.

when i was younger i was all about the baby oil too and almond oil. :P

reaf reafOG 2002

I KNOWWWWWW,,, ha haha, it makes me sick, when i see girls my age or younger than me are on there way to having fabulously leather like skin,, you can't get that skin back, whhyyy do that to yourself!

i love the sun and i like to be tan, but i dooo nottttt need to be looking like a piece of leather, or old before my time

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

AMEN SISTAH!!!!!

iwz #4 iwz

eZabel is now officially WAY TOO GIRLY

beachbum #4.1 beachbumOG 2002

you wear flavored lipgloss, too, don't you?

hunkpapap #4.2 hunkpapapOG 2003

yeah there is way too much estrogen flowing around here..

tinser #4.3 tinserOG 2002 stupid

this is why we want a girl forum!

superhero #5 superheroOG 2004

i gotta say it...because i see it consistently...all the time, you spell "gross" as "growse". WHY. WHY. it makes no sense.

reaf #5.1 reafOG 2002

ha ha, why do i spell half of the words i spell wrong, who knows, i stopped questioning it along time ago! and so has most of the ezabel community.

hunkpapap #5.2 hunkpapapOG 2003

even the title is wrong. It should be Ladies ladies ladies..

reaf #5.2.1 reafOG 2002

ha ha,, actually its just a really bad habit I have of shortening up words,I just add Y

juicymango #6 juicymangoOG 2003

question - where would your mom drop off your sister in her bathrobe? .. and was your sister in her bathrobe or your mom? this confused me.

reaf #6.1 reafOG 2002

she would drop her off at school

socalgal #6.1.1 socalgalOG 2003

LOL I would NEVER ever see my mom like that. my mom is totally pristine and taught us to always look our best.

malibu #6.2 malibuOG 2001

see, my mom would never go out of the house like this. to me it is not a big deal but someone came over our house unexpectantly and she was in her pj's and ran for cover. "only your family should see you in your pj's."

socalgal #6.2.1 socalgalOG 2003

thats the way my mom is.

reaf #7 reafOG 2002

i once saw a friend of mine pick up a shirt and spray it with stuff which to me looked like fabreeze, and i was LIKE WHAT ARE YOU DOING,, you can't be seriuos,, but it turned out to be downy's wrinkle release spray, they look so much alike

juicymango #7.1 juicymangoOG 2003

haha was it me?

wrinkle release spray OWNED ME back in those days haha

i don't think i have bought that stuff in at least 2 years... most of my stuff is a lot neater than it used to be haha

reaf #7.1.1 reafOG 2002

no it was a guy

juicymango #7.1.1.1 juicymangoOG 2003

haha ok

reaf reafOG 2002

ha ha ha

oh man, does that stuff really work?

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

yeah

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

it actually gets out wrinkles w/o ironing?

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

yeah dude. Just spray on, hang up for like 10 minutes, and it's wrinkle-free. I used to use it on EVERYTHING cos my clothes were always all over the place and not neatly folded/hung.

(disclaimer - my clothes are still sometimes all over the place so then i just re-wash or throw in the dryer with a "refresher" cloth to get the wrinkles out. I refuse to iron)

reaf reafOG 2002

ha ha,, boy do i know that!

doesn't ironing take quicker, i couldnt wait for 10 minutes, i am realy impatient with stuff like that

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003 reaf

well you have to find a place for the ironing to take place, fold out the ironing board, wait for the iron to warm up, try to iron something without accidentaly making iron-creases and it's just SO annoying.

i hate ironing, it's my most hated household chore.

reaf reafOG 2002 juicymango

ha ha

i love ironing , there is something about hotness and hot fabric i love
i dont like so much irioning brandons dress shirts cause they are to big for the ironing board, makes it awkward

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003 reaf

ugh dress shirts are THE WORST to iron. I'd rather shoot myself in the thumb

reaf reafOG 2002 juicymango

I KNOW, FOR 2 BUCKS YOU CAN HAVE THEM DRY CLEANED, ALL NICE AND PRESSED, I DO THAT ALOT NOW

socalgal #8 socalgalOG 2003

I am girly, i must admit. even though i'm the biggest tomboy and will get down and dirty, doesnt' mean i have to look like one of the boys. now full makeup, i don't wear, only when we're going out at night....even then its minimal. during the day it'a all about lipstick and mascara, nothing else.

i detest cover-up and powders....makes you feel like you're wearing a mask or something, like its totally suffocating

thatdarngirl #9 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Make-up is dumb. My house (with four girls) has never been a girly-girl house. My mom has curly hair so growing up she never learned how to do a lot of stuff with her hair (like different ways to put it up, blow drying it straight etc.) because she didn't feel the need to do anything with it. Also, she was never a big fan of make up. The result? None of her three daughters had any clue what to do.

I am make-up retarded. I'll try and wear it if I'm going out somewhere nice or fun but daily? Absolutely not. I wear moisturizer cause it feels nice and lots of chapstick. Oh, and eyebrow gel..that stuff is amazing! I own a few different lip glosses (lip stick is gross, it gets all dry and nasty) which I rarely wear and mascara which gets used once a month maybe. Oh, and I have a nice foundation/cover up that I only use if like..my face looks really uneven and blotchy sometimes which doesnt happen very often so..it just sits on my shelf and makes me look like I'm a girl when I'm not.

thatdarngirl #9.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

That last poll makes me kind of sad. I love my t-shirts and jeans, I'm only comfortable dressing like that. But then I go into stores where they have all nice dressy-up clothes that are beautiful and I want them but I'd never wear them. How do you hang around on the couch wearing a shirt that costs $75?

icescream22 #9.2 icescream22OG 2004

total opposite here lindz, My mom won't go out to walk the dog without makeup & sometimes i get a bit paranoid about it too but now that i'm older i don't worry as much as i used to. The whole putting clothes on that have been lieing on the floor 4 a week is probly the biggest thing i do & i don't feel weird or bad about it at all* oh well!!! ;)

thatdarngirl #10 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Funny, my mom has always liked looking nice but over the last 10 years maybe she's definetly become like..a girl. She has to wear mascara (I think it annoys her that my lashes are naturally super long and think to the point where mascara makes my eyelashes look fake) and like..obsesses about what she's wearing and her hair. Its funny to me. Like, going to the meeting. Just throw on some dress clothes and as long as your neat and presentable who cares? She has to look perfect which is silly to me..these are people she's known forever!

socalgal #10.1 socalgalOG 2003

my eyelashes are long too and look fake when i use mascara, but i can't be with out it.

forrestina #11 forrestinaOG 2002

hygene: gotta brush my teeth 3 times a day at least. mouthwash & floss twice a day. kinda obsessivo about that. shower. can't wash my hair more than 2-3 times a week bc it is so dry/curly. so on the off days i use hair freshner spray/frizz stuff/leave-in conditioner. gotta shower everyday. if i showered once already in a day and then feel smelly later...i do the italian shower deal. lavendar baby oil, baby powder, lotion, perfume are all my friends when it comes to smelling so fresh and so clean. i'm DEF more high maintenance about cleanness than makeup.

makeup: i put chapstick on when im bored/remember to. that's my most frequent "makeup" application. i try to remember to wash my face and moisturize bc that is good but i end up doing it for like one week out of a month or two. the next step up makeupwise for me is royal blue mascara bc this makes my chinky eyes open up a bit. next step up from that is a little foundation under my eyes bc i have powder and don't own concealer (even if i did i would use it wrong). and if i'm feeling like looking pretty i'll do eyeshadow and lip gloss or lipstick. i cannot do eyeliner for my life so i dont even touch that. i use bronzer when i have a wedding bc i never get outside to tan. i am horrible at makeup and don't desire to take time out of sleeping to get up early and do it.

thatdarngirl #11.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

I love showers and enjoy them daily. I feel really gross and upset if I don't get to take a shower.

I can't do eyeliner either! How does that work? Its just so hard..why should we draw on our eyelids?

socalgal #11.1.1 socalgalOG 2003

i can take a ton of showers all day, i luv it!

forrestina #11.1.1.1 forrestinaOG 2002

that's the best in the summer. i do enjoy cold showers then but not ICE cold.

reaf #11.1.2 reafOG 2002

i can't do eyeliner either, above the eye anyway, i always had my sister do it when i needed it done, now because she's not around, i dont even attempt to try it

forrestina #11.1.2.1 forrestinaOG 2002

i hate the pencil ones bc they hurt/itch. and i can never get the brush/spongey liquidy ones thin enough. i can't do smoky eyes bc my eyes are so purple/black around. this frustrates me bc i like the smokey look!

malibu malibuOG 2001

you need to get a better pencil made from a nicer company. i had problem putting it on but then my mom let me use her NICE makeup and it slide right on. all depends on the company.

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

lorac is the bomb tho!

icescream22 #11.1.3 icescream22OG 2004

yea, eyeliner took me years to master! Useing white on ur top lids helps tho cause you can easily fix it without it looking stupid.

reaf #11.2 reafOG 2002

you know what this made me think,, i really am picky about my water pressure when takeing a shower, it has to be the right kind of hardness.
and i to enjoy showers alot,, buutttt when i am camping i love not taking showers, and just kinda jumpin in the river. and its always ICEY cold river water, so refreshing

thatdarngirl #11.2.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Where do you go camping? We've been looking for a place to go for a weekend and we dont want showers!

reaf #11.2.1.1 reafOG 2002

the funest cheapest place i have been is indian head upstate new york, it is awesome
they have rafting and the water is ice cold, but so much fun, its easy stroling rafting, atleast when we where there.

we had sooo much fun there, it was bloody hot during the day and freezing at night,, so we all snuggled in one tent, it was so much fun,, and the only thing we had was a porta potty.
we totally plan on going up there again this fall, maybe we could hook up?

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

That'd be awesome! Frest has never gone camping and we wanted to show her the true meaning!

reaf reafOG 2002

Than this is a must do!

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

ah yes...id love to observe camping frest from afar. i personally will not be camping with her again - ever!

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

that was not camping. and why cus i beat that wimpy kid up for having a fresh mouth?

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

no lil sis bc we got in a fight and i had to wash out some girls underpants and you put your fist through the window and that cute boy tried to steal newts and....a million reasons

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 sunshyne

haha GREAT summary (his name was james)

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004 forrestina

i remembered his name...i just wasnt putting it out there...how about that dad with the scary pants

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 sunshyne

that was hot dan's dad and they were hammer pants. stop trying to pretend that you dont know this.

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004 forrestina

those were way scarier than hammer pants. im fairly sure they were mentioned on vh1's i love the 90s. *goes to look it up bc im a timewaster* found it! http://www.badfads.com/pages/fashion/zubaz.html

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 sunshyne

haha they weren't stretch pants

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004 forrestina

i know you cant tell it from the female model they used in the pick but they arent stretch pants. they are weight lifting pants - really baggy but with a tight elastic waist. you can see them on i love the 90s-1996.

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 sunshyne

they were hammer pants!! ROAR i gotta get a hold of a pic of mr. wells!!

socalgal socalgalOG 2003 sunshyne

i remember those. it was mostly the heavy metal peeps that wore them. SOOOO funny

hunkpapap #12 hunkpapapOG 2003

I use chapstick constantly..

reaf #13 reafOG 2002

also i do really really enjoy manicures, pedicures, and facials the most!

sunshyne #14 sunshyneOG 2004

i only wear make up (and contacts) if i'm seeing someone special or if i think there is a possibilty of my appearance being recorded ... by the same token, if either of those things are happening, im spending some extra time getting ready ... i rarely wear anything that could be characterized as bummy clothes though

superhero #14.1 superheroOG 2004

someone SPECIAL????????? HMMMMM i think i need to hear some details STAT!

sunshyne #14.1.1 sunshyneOG 2004

and you think you deserve details bc....?

reaf #14.2 reafOG 2002

Apperance being recorded? are you trying to avoid joan rivers on the carpet for the best and worste dressed list this year?

sunshyne #14.2.1 sunshyneOG 2004

umm...i just love having my picture taken, but i love it more when i look my best (or what i think is my best)

reaf #14.2.1.1 reafOG 2002

huh, one of the few people I know that likes there picture being taken, thats awesome.
I don't mind it either,its okay, SOMETIMES. I do love the memories!

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

its my moms fault bc she took us for portraits at sears regularly and i figured i could either be miserable like my sisters or enjoy it. i chose the latter.

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

i only look miserable in SOME of the pictures

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

i didnt say LOOK miserable. i said BE miserable. i dont think i look better in pics, i just try to enjoy having them taken vs. want to hide from the camera.

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

why anyone would want a picture of my goofy face is their problem not mine

sunshyne sunshyneOG 2004

frest did you forget you were our golden child? with your halo of curls and glowing complexion. everyone wanted a pic of you.

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 sunshyne

ha yea there are plenty which attest to that

malibu malibuOG 2001

my mom always took us for these portraits. when i was younger i had no mole above my lip. since we went every year my family can trace back the history of the mole to exactly when it started. sick game to play.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

you poor thing!

my sisters loved the fact that i looked japanese when i was younger, they told me that i was adopted. so they do the same thing....they trace when i look japanese to when i started looking mexican. so sad

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

I love having my picture taken and I love having pictures of myself. Its not even because I enjoy looking at myself (I'm not very photogenic anyways) but like you said..memories are cool.

beachbum #15 beachbumOG 2002

hey lay-dies! uh uh get funk-ay

hunkpapap #16 hunkpapapOG 2003

where bummy clothes? THERE bummy clothes! (young frankenstein)

malibu #17 malibuOG 2001

okay spraying perfume to smell better does not change the appearance of how you still need to take a shower. like gross hair that's oily looking or frizzing. just shower. there is always enough time.

perrin #17.1 perrinOG 2004

I can't even think about this, the fact that people do that, nasty!

malibu #17.1.1 malibuOG 2001

but apparently some people do and they can get away with it so good job!!

perrin #17.1.1.1 perrinOG 2004

I know they do but I just can't think about that fact. lol

hunkpapap #18 hunkpapapOG 2003

BOY, I don't know what you ladies are complaining about!! Half hour ago, i'm tweezing my eyebrows right? So i scrunch up my brows and i end up grabbing like ten eyelashes along with one of them eyebrow fuzzies. YEEOWCH!! Man, i practically ripped off my upper eyelid..

The things we men do for beauty..

malibu #18.1 malibuOG 2001

are you kidding me? you're grippin about tweezing your brows?? wuss!! no i just do it so often that it no longer hurts that bad as long as i just dab water on them first.

malibu #19 malibuOG 2001

so here's my thought as to why i am the way i am..... my mom is concerned with her appearance. she always looks gorgeous. like a redheaded elizabeth taylor. or an older lynz lohan. my older sister. same thing. wears waterproof mascara so that she will never be seen w/o makeup. my lil sister is amazing with makeup. the other day she looked amazing and she tells me she used 14 colors to blend around her eyes. there is just always so much pretty lookin people around me....that i dont' feel like i need to try. they need the bathroom time and while it's fun to try and look pretty....requires way too much time and money. i just try the basics to look presentable. neat hair. clean teeth. and sun-kissed skin. because...hey....there's gotta be one bad apple in the bunch.right?

juicymango #20 juicymangoOG 2003

I think there is a huge difference between not being concerned with your appearance as far as makeup and fancy clothes are concerned, and not being concerned with your appearance and being just dirty. Dirty hair, dirty clothes, dirty face. Gross. I hate makeup and getting dressed up... but when there is a stain on a shirt that won't wash out with some stain-remover, I throw out the shirt haha.

reaf #21 reafOG 2002

wow, im surprised this journal broke 50, now its at 100!

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