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reaf by reaf · Nov 22, 2004 · 361 views · Journal

Me & my husband decided we want to learn Italian & Spanish.
And Before we have our child so he can be tri-lingual.

Since they are pretty similar it shouldn't be hard if we pick up one to pick up the other one.

Any suggestions on the best way to do this?

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flyingfree1125 #1 flyingfree1125OG 2001

go back to high school, tell everyone your seniors and then take language classes

suchgr8heights #1.1 suchgr8heightsOG 2003

like josie grosie! Never been Kissed!

malibu #1.1.1 malibuOG 2001

but i'm not josie grosie anymore!!!!

flomojopoanode #2 flomojopoanodeFounder

borrow Pimsleur from the library. Supposedly the Best program for learning languages. I'm currently learning spanish this way. My uncle learned french. They also have italian and many other languages. Very expensive, but it really really really works. (no reading to learn, either, it's all on cd)

Some links:

http://www.pimsleur.info/?referrer=45

I think this might be a crazy good price, but I'll have to check:
http://www.cheappimsleur.com/?xtr=GoogleAdwordsPimsleur&wcw=google

reaf #2.1 reafOG 2002

holy moly thats alot. is it working?

do they have dialects, cause spanish has a few, im sure italian does to.

sunshyne #2.1.1 sunshyneOG 2004

italian dialects are mostly going away. if you speak straight italian, everyone will understand you. whereas some local expressions would not be understood by everyone.

flomojopoanode #2.1.2 flomojopoanodeFounder

you learn "castillian" or "castillano" spanish. It's a very proper form of spanish, close to that used in Spain. Most people will understand you when you speak it. I got to meet 2 sisters from Madrid, and spoke with them in spanish. I understood everything they said, and they understood me quite well. TRUE, I haven't gotten far with them, and True you don't learn SPAIN spanish exactly (they have a nasty lisp), but it's excellent. I never learned any grammar, and yet, I can tell when somethings sound right or not.

deanh77 #2.1.2.1 deanh77Founder

my wife told me the word they use for cake in Puerto Rico means "prostitute" in Spain. I think. or the other way around. I can't remember. Safest bet is never to offer cake to a spanish speaking person.

flomojopoanode flomojopoanodeFounder

lol, I'll keep that in mind. I wouldn't want to ask a sister if she wants cake, but accidently asking her if she's a prostitute. That does NOT go over big.

theremin #2.1.3 thereminOG 2002

I have the Pimsluer Norwegian course. It's grand

juicymango #2.2 juicymangoOG 2003

wow these are very cool!

specialk #3 specialkOG 2003

Go to Italy. That's where I learned Italian. And have a Puerto Rican aunt and take 3 and a half years of Spanish in school. That's how I learned Spanish.

Hahaha....I actually think taking classes might help. And if you know any Spanish speaking brothers or sisters, it always helps to have them teach you a little as well.

I work with a really sweet girl who is from Venezuela, and she spoke ZERO English when she moved here 4 years ago. She still has a very heavy accent, but her English is really good, but she wants to learn more, since she gets confused with some of the words and stuff sometimes. We made an agreement...she's gonna "refresh" my Spanish memory, and I'm gonna help her where she needs it with the English. It's always nice to know people who can help you out. :)

malibu #4 malibuOG 2001

focus on learning one first. i studied (am studying) spanish for about 6 years now. as a result, i understand when people speak italian cuz a lot of the words are similar. i also have to learn how to speak it. i feel going to italy for the summer is the best solution. wanna come?

reaf #4.1 reafOG 2002

I want to take up spanish and my husband wants to take up Italian, and hopefully we can just learn off each other. ha. We would LOVE to go to italy, it's one of our want to trips. My mom is puerto rican so i have grown up around spanish speaking people but not enough to pick it up, I hope when we go to costa rica i will be able to pic some up. That would be so nice! I always wanted to go to puerto rico for a month just to pic up the language, I think I could do it, i dont think it would be that hard cause I'd HAVE to learn to speak it.

flomojopoanode #4.1.1 flomojopoanodeFounder

You'd be surprised. I went to costa rica with 3 guys who pretty much only spoke english, and so I only spoke english with them. It would have been better if the guys I went with knew as much spanish as me, because then we could have been practicing all day everyday as we found our way around. I picked up some new stuff, but not much. It might be a good idea for both of you to focus on just one language so that you can practice together. Then, like Julie said, worry about the other language.

malibu #4.1.2 malibuOG 2001

well, if you're intrested, i'm plannning a trip to italy for this summer. planning on renting a house or an apartment. there's a few of us going. boys house and girls house. for about 3 weeks or a month. haven't decided yet or worked out all the details cuz people are still decieding if they wanna come. lemme know if you're interested.

web-toedchloe #5 web-toedchloeOG 2001

My husband got a language CD when he was in college to help him in French class. He found one that actually has voice recognition, so you speak into the microphone on your computer or laptop and the program can actually correct your pronunciation, which is the most difficult part of learning a langauge from a book.

reaf #5.1 reafOG 2002

When in the summer? I doubt we'd be maken it this usmmer cause we have alot going on but it would be nice to keep in mind just in case

malibu #5.1.1 malibuOG 2001

i think this was to me so... planning on late august or early september.

reaf #5.1.1.1 reafOG 2002

yeah it was, sorry

juicymango #6 juicymangoOG 2003

I'm trilingual - I spoke only Polish for the first 11 years of my life, then I learned English, and then I started taking Spanish from 7th grade till college. So for a while there I spoke fluent Polish, English and Spanish. Now, i'm forgetting a LOT of Spanish. I can understand a lot of it but speaking is hard. Polish also is getting tougher to speak, because I dont' use it as much. It's just easier to speak English. I can understand Polish perfectly but forming sentences is hard..

So basically for me, the best way to learn a language is to be around it as much as possible. If you can't actually GO to Italy or a spanish-speaking country, listen to the language as mush as possible so you get accustomed to it.

originalsnob #6.1 originalsnobOG 2004

WOW I want to learn a slovick language...Polish, Russian, ukrainian, or ALL. No preferance because basically I LUV the accents the native speakers have. Every explaination of ANYTHING, must be exactly whatever they say 'cause they sound so wise and powerful. (note: guys with this accent: SOoo HOT!)

juicymango #6.1.1 juicymangoOG 2003

I really want to learn Japanese or one of the most common Chinese dialects like Cantonese.. I really have such an interest in that but I know that I don't really have the time to devote to it right now.

originalsnob #6.1.1.1 originalsnobOG 2004

I started learning mandarin...I think that's the most common, then cantonese. Chinese has that very crisp sound, and you actually have to say things at different pitches to make sure you're expressing your thought properly, FUN.

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

ahh yes Mandarin. I couldn't think of it. Yeah I really want to learn that.

thatdarngirl #6.1.1.2 thatdarngirlOG 2002

I really wanted to learn Japanese but its always offered on a tuesday night at my school. Maybe when I transfer.

juicymango #6.1.2 juicymangoOG 2003

oh and by the way, Polish, Russian and Slovakian languages are all COMPLETELY different. Russian even has a completley different alphabet. I never knew how to read/speak or understand any russian at all... and I used to know this Slovak brother and I could not undrestand him AT ALL when he spoke in his language haha.. it was funny because he would just keep talking and my sister and I would just stare at each other not having any idea what he's saying

yay #6.1.2.1 yayOG 2004

at the same time they sound so similar

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

yeah, but only to the untrained ear! haha

Spanish is actually more closely related to Polish than Russian for example. Knowing Polish really helped in learning Spanish, and certain words are identical!

Certain words are similar in Russian and Polish but.. it's just a completely differnet ballgame

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

I've got two very untrained ears.

originalsnob originalsnobOG 2004

Very interesting, see I just like the accents I have no opinion on whether or not the actual languages sound similar...the accent's are very strong, very (ah hem rhymes with rexy).

flomojopoanode #6.2 flomojopoanodeFounder

I'm tossing around the idea of moving to costa rica. They have an english congregation in need. There's a division of my company there. I'd have to learn spanish, but I could maintain my english, too! And, it's beautiful there!

reaf #6.2.1 reafOG 2002

GO FOR IT, Once in a life time chance, and your young with no attatchments, do it!

originalsnob #6.2.1.1 originalsnobOG 2004

You're sooo adorable ;-)

juicymango #6.3 juicymangoOG 2003

oh also - it's EXTREMELY easy for small children to learn other languages. It's awesome. You probably don't even need to speak the language fluently and you can teach a child to communicate in that language. That amazes me about how humans are created. Imagine having that power to absorb and learn new things quickly and use your whole brain your whole life :) Can't wait.

flomojopoanode #6.3.1 flomojopoanodeFounder

This is what the pimsleur Courses are designed off of. The way we learn language, when we first learn language.

juicymango #6.3.1.1 juicymangoOG 2003

oh that's pretty cool... i'll hafta check em out

malibu #6.3.1.2 malibuOG 2001

yes. i like the pimslur cd's. i've been so busy though that i haven't even finished the second one yet. so frustrated with myself. i'll get to the end evuantally.

flomojopoanode flomojopoanodeFounder

lol, pathetic!

malibu malibuOG 2001

hey mister!!! did you finish either?? i don't think so.

flomojopoanode flomojopoanodeFounder

you know what they say when you "assume"?

malibu malibuOG 2001

i didn't assume, i mearly asked a question.

thatdarngirl #6.3.2 thatdarngirlOG 2002

I'm going to make my kids quadruple-lingual.

juicymango #6.3.2.1 juicymangoOG 2003

oh yeah if i ever have kids they're gonna be infinity-lingual

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

mine aren't going to speak ANY languages at all. just some basic hand signs and grunts.

reaf reafOG 2002

ha ha ha,WOW, now thats something scary!

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

my kids and i will speak in eye movements and tonally varied grunts indicative of different inflections and situational intensity. it'll be a riot.

reaf reafOG 2002

that it will be, and perhaps a difus offense I would think.

yay yayOG 2004

mine will talk in airplane signals

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

mine will do faggy interpretive dances for everything.

yay yayOG 2004 fivezero

mine will speak in binary by taking their shorts on and off, on for 1, off for 0

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003 yay

[MAD FUNNY] mine will communicate in gas emissions, exercising a new and unprecedented control of his and/or her sphincter muscle.

yay yayOG 2004 fivezero

[haha] Mine will learn to communicate by making fish faces and doing an occiasional robotic supersonic dance

yay #7 yayOG 2004

i hear they speak hebrew in hawii

superhero #8 superheroOG 2004

i love me some nice cookies and hebrew hawaiians

yay #8.1 yayOG 2004

nothing like a nice cold glass of hebrew hawians to go with your cookies

ilikebirds #9 ilikebirdsOG 2002

i learned a new language once.

it was called english.

now i'm really good at it...

so... try it

hunkpapap #10 hunkpapapOG 2003

This reminds me of what Alec Baldwin said about is south american nanny, "My kids speak with a peruvian accent! Born here and they can't speak English!""

fivezero #10.1 fivezeroOG 2003

HAHAHA! I wish I had a Peruvian nanny.

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