Like a giant mouse
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the guy at our gym that checks our cards and hands out locker keys at the front desk, he's really huge, like 7 feet tall and looks pretty intimidating
anyway this guy is like the quietest, shyest guy i've ever seen in my life
his voice is like a mouse
and he looks frightened of humans
i really feel bad for him
chris and i both said the same thing about him, we were walking out of the gym the other day and were just amazed, because someone was complaining at the desk about owing a balance or whatever and the guy almost collapsed in a pile of timidity
and the dude is HUGE and like 7 feet tall
so we wer saying he should be slaying dragons and setting people on fire with his words
instead he .. cowers...
we want to befriend him, toughen him up a bit
any suggestions? haha
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WOW he looks frightened of humans , this is not an attractive trait. Got to have some back bone.
Just to be clear having back bone and just being an insecure mouthy jerk are two very different things. Also retreating into your insecurities and never confronting issues bad quality for filling the role of headship.
Now about this dude...
This is a tough one, because you don't know why he is this way. It's going to be difficult to try and counteract this tendency to "cower" with out understanding it's origin.
What if he used to have a pair and somebody just broke the man down?
Try just engaging him in conversation see what's there, for a start.
It's nice that you want to help though, hope it works out! ;)
haha yeah we are thinking maybe we should start and enroll him in a fight club
I want you to go out and start a fight. You're going to start a fight and you are going to lose. Let them know they still have the power.
thats funny and weird at the same time! i guess you cant judge a book by its cover.
anyway, i think you should put him in the ring with a monkey...have him go a few rounds, that should toughen him up!