if i could change one thing about my past and it wouldnt affect the present i would delete the time i wasted on one of my old boyfriends. i dont know what i was thinking when i dated him. im actually embarrased to say that i dated this person, and if you know him you know why (heehee). i would love to never have to admit that i dated this person, yes it was that bad. the thing is if i never dated him i would never have learned the most important lesson of love- love does not come from what you get out of a relationship, as in material possesions or money, those things cant make you truely happy, happiness and love come from feelings inside and mutual respect and love for eachother. im happy i learned those lessons, but i wish i didnt have to learn them the way i did.