You know, magnum, I can sympathize... like when you've known someone since they were a little kid and you were always treated like one of the family and they grow up and get married they invite everyone to the wedding (including people who have been moved away and out of state for years) and you don't get an invite... you don't even KNOW about the wedding til like a month after it happened... what a sore spot... I can't find myself to be mean, though...