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juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

Girls don't mean to break your heart. If you're going thru a breakup, just be happy, it only means that the right one is still out there for ya. Haha, i duno, it sounded good in my head.

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

nooooo i think that if a girl breaks up with you .. you stopped making her smile and happy and aren't satisfying here that way she needs..

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

yeah so that only means that she needs someone else. And you need someone else. Kinda thing.

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

yup. or you need to get off your lazy behind and satisfy her.

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

yeah, but sometimes, what the girl needs, is just not what the guy IS. And if the guy just does whatever she wants for the time being, to keep her around, eventually the truth will come out, and THEN it's stupid.

This goes the other way around too. Girls pretending to be a certain way or whatever, only to realize years down the line that they're not happy. That's stupid too. It's actually smarter to just break up when you realize your'e not compatible.

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

yes it's all grey. no black and white. allll gray. grey and greay

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

yep.... relationships are hard work. Quoth the raven, nevermore.

tinser tinserOG 2002

thats why i always think....even if things aren't going good now...its okay, because EVENTUALLY, things are gonna work out.

(dan, why don't you mark this comment as stupid?)

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002

becuase before you made it sound ilke you were talking about STICKING with a person, hoping things are eventually going to work out.

now, it's more like, if it's not working out with them, EVENTUALLY it will work out with SOMEONE. which i agree with.

tinser tinserOG 2002

well...if things clearly aren't going to work out, because somebody doesn't love you back...then i think you need to move on, because eventually you will find the right person for you.

BUT, if its other issues that cause the problems, and both people do love each other, then i think sticking to the person is a good thing...it may sound corny...but i think love can overcome obstacles (yeah, i was right...it does sound corny)

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002

hahaha. this i agree with. yes. perhaps i mis-understood.

you reaaaaaaallly want to see that comment changed, don't you...

tinser tinserOG 2002

thank you

tinser tinserOG 2002

and....i dont see how it sounds i was talking about sticking to a person

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