If that's the only thing that bugged you, I think the Extended Edition DVDs will satisfy you, as the Saruman scenes will be back in (excluding the shire)
Yup, Yup. It's confirmed.
That's good. I would have liked the scouring to be there, but I guess it really isn't possible to put it into a movie like this since everyone sees the destruction of the ring as the climax. The battle of Bywater would have been cool to see on screen, though.