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thatdarngirl Jan 14, 2004

Adam seriously..don't make marriage a goal and then try and work towards it. It'll never work that way. Keep it as an option and just leave it there. If you find a girl (I'm assuming your looking f...

beachbum Jan 14, 2004

i agree. you find the right person when you're not even looking. and if you don't, you are still ok b/c you are occupied w/ even higher goals.

katiedid katiedidFounder

and the harder you look, the least likely you are to find someone (seems to be the way).

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

i love how married people give these kinds of answers

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

well we would know!

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