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socalgal Jan 15, 2004

Seriously, enjoy your singleness! It truly is a gift, trust me! You're young enough and just keep putting Jah first and everything else will fall into place.

dgiaimo Jan 15, 2004

And what exactly are we supposed to enjoy about it?

socalgal Jan 15, 2004

You're free to do whatever. Spend more time in service, hanging out with your friends. Traveling without worrying about saving much money for another person. There's just so much!

walkngplaygrnd walkngplaygrndOG 2003

and what if all your friends are married and hanging out with them is just a constant reminder of how single you really are?

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dgiaimoOG 2003

Exactly. It's depressing to think that I'm probably the oldest single brother in my hall.

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toxicgirlOG 2003

I didn't think guys thought like that...

You seem nice, you should come to Pennsylvania and meet a friend from my congregation. She loves California.

walkngplaygrnd walkngplaygrndOG 2003

are you serious, gab? you've never heard the "DR" say that before?

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

i've heard it. and it's ok, because ROB SANDERS is getting married. he's 45. here i give you HOPE in it's purest form.

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toxicgirlOG 2003

holy whoa

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

WOW you need to move down south. There are so many singles out here its unbelieveable.

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dgiaimoOG 2003

I don't mean to be insulting, but I've lived in Southern California and I never want to move back.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

I'm sorry, why? Bad experience or you don't like it here?

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dgiaimoOG 2003

Many bad experiences. Few good ones. And I really don't like the area that much anyway.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

I'm sorry to hear that! Was it OC, LA or SD? I'm in OC. Serious you get a whole different world with each county - strange huh?

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dgiaimoOG 2003

It was San Diego County. I lived in a small town called Ramona.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

I know where that is. YOu know next time you're down So Cal OC way, let me know, my friends and i will show you how fun and how cool the friends are here. Take it there are some bad ones, i'm not denying, but we have fun and make-do with what we have! I'm telling you each county is SO different from the next....

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dgiaimoOG 2003 socalgal

Thanks, but I'm never really down in So Cal anymore. (I haven't even been back to SD in years.) I'll keep it in mind though.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

Oh yes, I know what you mean, when i was like 18 all my friends were getting married, but i didn't let it bum me out. There's always ONE person that's not married that you can hang out with.

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