So, I don't know who you are, I don't know what you look like, and I don't know your personality other then on Ezabel. That being said, this is not an insult aimed towards you but just a comment. ...

I don't think there is a more perfect way of saying it.

Well true, but then whats the ugly girl supposed to marry?

Ugly is a relative term. I'd never say anyone is ugly. I go the more diplomatic route and say, "they're not my type."