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reaf Feb 4, 2004

all in all you really should have known where you were at , as far as health insurance, and bills. You probably should have taken care of these things ages ago. especially your own bills! Not to s...

thewalkhome Feb 4, 2004

i disagree...its not a matter of not knowing where youre at, its an issue of being under under the assumption that you HAVE insurance, and then finding out 2 months later from a letter that you hav...

reaf Feb 4, 2004

you shouldnt be under an assumption. You should know, not that you have to be checking it hourly but,be in the know, perhaps she should have called that loved one before she went to the doctors to ...

tesoro Feb 4, 2004

i doubt anyone calls up their insurance company or the person handling their insurance each time before going to the doctor. thats like making sure your car is insured every time you go outside...

reaf Feb 4, 2004

yeah but when was the last time she went to the doctors, if its been months, if she hardley ever goes like me, and doesnt she have an insurance card,unless, she was just dropped out of nowhere! I ...

punkprincess Feb 4, 2004

Okay... i just want to clarify something... i get sick A LOT.. infact i have been to the doctor about 3 times in the past 6 months...and that doesnt include times ive been sick without going to the...

toxicgirl Feb 4, 2004

No need to explain. It's pretty simple. Someone told you that they would take care of those bills and unexpectantly they stopped. It was irresponsible of them to stop making payment and not tell yo...

thewalkhome Feb 4, 2004

my point exactly.

reaf Feb 5, 2004

I guess what Im trying to say here without being so blunt,(and i realize i so dont know the whole story, but just from reading the journal) is Ya Know, Welcome to the real world, where you take c...

iwz iwz

you obviously have problems trusting people, or don't understand what trust is all about.

reaf reafOG 2002

I definatly have a trust situation, it takes me a very long time to trust people, even friends. I just happened to learn from experiences and draw from other peoples experiences when i was younger that it made me not trust people. I do know what trust is about, i just chooose not to trust most people.

thewalkhome thewalkhomeOG 2003

what an awful way to live.

reaf reafOG 2002

and why is that

thewalkhome thewalkhomeOG 2003

Because when you have a problem trusting people, or choosing not to trust people, its gonna severly limit what kind of person you are going to be. id rather get burned occsionally because i trusted someone (not foolish trust, mind you) than be all jaded and bitter from past experiences and not trust people.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

I trust people so easily it's crazy. I can meet you one time and be ready to sit down and tell you my whole life story. Of course, it does have the disadvantage of always getting burned and all..but I bounce back pretty quick.

reaf reafOG 2002

ha ha, im not by any means jaded (I love that word jaded)or bitter from past experiences, I just am very careful in trusting people, how can that limit the type of person you are,Who says you need to be burned to create a personality for you. By not trusting people doesnt mean I dont make friends with other people. I am just careful as to who I open myself up to.

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

this is an argument or confrontation or skirmish that no one is gonna win. so lets all go skinny dipping. i got dibs on putting my boxers on my head !

reaf reafOG 2002

Eek it's to cold for that member what happened last time you went skinny dipping in the coldness, in the ocean.

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

yea it was cold. thats all i remember. then i had to drive home cold. that wasn't fun

reaf reafOG 2002

Im not exactly the type of person that needs to spill there guts to 10 or 20 or 5 people. I never ever was, even when i was little little. I keep things to myself, always have. I didnt need other people comforting me for whatever it was. Some people do, I don't. Its like I never needed a crowd of kids to hang out with every weekend, I'm totally content with just hanging out with my husband, or hanging out with one other person. Some people need that security of many friends around. I just dont. I tend to be a small circle of friends girl than even just knowing a 100 or 20 kids. I dont need to go outside the circle, even if it was just me and another person.Doesnt mean I dont expand, I just keep to myself.

thewalkhome thewalkhomeOG 2003

and thats your prefrence and thats cool, but others might prefer to widen out...and that doesnt really mean they need security of people around them, it just means that they enjoy the company of those they trust without having a hard shell for people to break through.

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