all in all you really should have known where you were at , as far as health insurance, and bills. You probably should have taken care of these things ages ago. especially your own bills! Not to s...
i disagree...its not a matter of not knowing where youre at, its an issue of being under under the assumption that you HAVE insurance, and then finding out 2 months later from a letter that you hav...
you shouldnt be under an assumption. You should know, not that you have to be checking it hourly but,be in the know, perhaps she should have called that loved one before she went to the doctors to ...
i doubt anyone calls up their insurance company or the person handling their insurance each time before going to the doctor. thats like making sure your car is insured every time you go outside...
yeah but when was the last time she went to the doctors, if its been months, if she hardley ever goes like me, and doesnt she have an insurance card,unless, she was just dropped out of nowhere! I ...
Okay... i just want to clarify something... i get sick A LOT.. infact i have been to the doctor about 3 times in the past 6 months...and that doesnt include times ive been sick without going to the...
listen i dont feel as if i have to defend myself. the point of this journal was to get it off my chest.. it was bothering me. i actually agree with you... i should have been taking care of all of this for a while now.. but the point is i HAVENT.. i never asked anyone to take care of things. i was told, as long as youre pioneering...and single i would be some-what helped. i really couldn't care less how YOU feel i should have been raised. the fact is, thats not how it was. thanks for the concern.
I have been paying all my own bills including dental/health everything since about age 17 or so, and i moved out on my own at age 20, so i'm not just talkin out my butt i know it's rough and I know I have definitely learned a lot from being on my own for a long time. And I do agree that it's good to take responsibility for your own self and your bills etc. However, I think that when someone offers to help you, and then they help you, and then they suddenly stop helping you, it's not nice. Especially when you're a pioneer, sometimes things DO get taken care of for you. Or if you're a Circuit Overseer, things get TAKEN CARE OF for you. Who would blame a circuit overseer if suddenly a congregation told him, you have to move out of the apartment we built for you now, we dont feel like having you there anymore. Would you say to the circuit overseer that he should have been paying his own rent in the first place??
It's like... MOST people's parents pay for their kids wedding right? So if on your wedding day they suddenly say "nope i'm not paying" it's obviously not your fault, it's the parents fault.
Or how most people's parents pay for their college. What if you're going to college and suddenly your parents say, "i have no more money to pay for you, oh and by the way I didn't pay the last bill either.. sorry forgot to tell ya." and you're already half-way thru the semester, and so you HAVE to pay for it. It's not YOUR fault...
I duno that's my thoughts on it
ORR!! ORR!! Or if Bethelites were suddenly told they have to pay for their food and shelter!! Would anyone say "well they should have done this to you a long time ago so you learn about the real life"... eh... i duno i definitely wouldn't.
yeah, you definitly cant seperate avenues of full-time service and say one is more important than another, or deserves more or less help than another.
That is an awesome argument kam!