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reaf Feb 4, 2004

all in all you really should have known where you were at , as far as health insurance, and bills. You probably should have taken care of these things ages ago. especially your own bills! Not to s...

thewalkhome Feb 4, 2004

i disagree...its not a matter of not knowing where youre at, its an issue of being under under the assumption that you HAVE insurance, and then finding out 2 months later from a letter that you hav...

reaf Feb 4, 2004

you shouldnt be under an assumption. You should know, not that you have to be checking it hourly but,be in the know, perhaps she should have called that loved one before she went to the doctors to ...

tesoro Feb 4, 2004

i doubt anyone calls up their insurance company or the person handling their insurance each time before going to the doctor. thats like making sure your car is insured every time you go outside...

reaf Feb 4, 2004

yeah but when was the last time she went to the doctors, if its been months, if she hardley ever goes like me, and doesnt she have an insurance card,unless, she was just dropped out of nowhere! I ...

punkprincess Feb 4, 2004

Okay... i just want to clarify something... i get sick A LOT.. infact i have been to the doctor about 3 times in the past 6 months...and that doesnt include times ive been sick without going to the...

toxicgirl Feb 4, 2004

No need to explain. It's pretty simple. Someone told you that they would take care of those bills and unexpectantly they stopped. It was irresponsible of them to stop making payment and not tell yo...

thewalkhome Feb 4, 2004

my point exactly.

reaf Feb 5, 2004

I guess what Im trying to say here without being so blunt,(and i realize i so dont know the whole story, but just from reading the journal) is Ya Know, Welcome to the real world, where you take c...

violetboregaurd violetboregaurdOG 2003

When someone finds themselves in a situation as such described in this journal, it is never easy. It DOES NOT matter what age you are. If the person was 17 or 70 - it doesn't matter, growing up happens at different times for everyone.
I have been paying my bills and working since I was 13 - that is what I was dealt and that's me. ALL of our situations vary from family to family.

Tina, I'm sorry this is how you have to deal with all this, but you are doing awesome and are going to land so on your feet, it's going to be amazing.

For the person(s) who feels their viewpoint is so real, I have to also add - being harsh is never the way to get your point across. Being rude and hurtful will ONLY alientate the few people still around you - so next time you want to talk real about life... choose your words more carefully. I guess all your viewpoints are easy to throw when you marry into money and throwing around advice comes easier than applying it yourself.

By the way you are right - there are a tremendous amount of typos - for one, responcabilitys is spelled responsibility and has no C in it.

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

you know what i think. i think that if you all were cheap jews and never spent any of your money this wouldn't be a problem. so be a jew.

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002

that's what i wanted to think, i just dind't have the guts.

thewalkhome thewalkhomeOG 2003

i agree. I think an attitude of "Oh, this is how it should be done, youre wrong" is one that is easy to have on the sidelines when all of your needs are already being taken care of by a husband. We always seem to know the best way someone shouldve handeled something, but our own lives could look screwed up to everyone else. and Lauren, that was awesome. HAHAHA, I literally laughed out loud at that response.

reaf reafOG 2002

are you saying my husband is paying for me?

reaf reafOG 2002

ya married into money , that'd be nice.

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