ugh, close ones who are disfellowshipped is such a struggle. all you can do is pray that they turn around.

I don't mean to be callous about this, but I really don't understand that. These people have rejected Jehovah and his standards and there is no place in my heart for such an one. And as for prayi...

that's not necessarily true at all. some people are df'ed after they've been on a bad course, and that's what they need to get back on track. i've seen it happens. it's definitely not wrong to p...