I truly feel bad, its a wake up call for us because SURPRISE, we're imperfect and if we have a "tear" in our suit of armor, satan takes FULL advantage and thats how we become weak.
Are they truly evil/bad people, NO, did they have that tear in their "spiritual armor" yes and satan took full advantage. Does Jehovah reprimand those he loves? YES....
*my heart goes out to you violetbeauregard....I know what your going through my heart and prayers go out to you!