ok so something true along these lines...We saw a prog metal witness band at a metal club in Mount Vernon (home of DMX) and then saw them the next night in LI (home of many high maintenance women) and the band after them both nights had 5 losers.

So i'm outside the next night and i say, "Hey, it's the lead singer of gandell." He about fell over. He's like, "we're finally recognized!! we have fans! do you want an autograph?" I held back laughter and said, "uh, no i saw you guys last night.."

Talk about shattering a dream..