try having a d/f kid. so many of the kids she grew up with are d/f too.

ok, listen, can you show empathy instead of turning it to you and your family? I'm not hating on you, or beating you up, but when someone's having a rough week, it's not kind to say "you think THAT...

you totally misunderstood my comment, but that was to be expected.

no. you missed the point of MY comment (as was expected). read it again. more slowly. look for the parts that apply to you.

how as that funny?

because he put (as was expected) in parenthesis...subtle sarcasm