this is what you do... you should take your cousin's ex and place him in a hospital . and then tell your cousin that he has cancer (or another terminal illness like a cold or something). and then the ex wants her to visit him. then his new girlfriend will be there. and they both begin grieving and hugging each other. as they start hugging each other you take pictures. (send them to me) and then as they finsih crying tell the ex fiance to wake up and be like "Surprise I'm not dead " and then you can all look back at the moment they were crying , because you have pictures, and it shows how small their fights are when this man could have lost his life because of a cold. BOOM. solution found. puzzled solved. case closed.