here's my advice to you. analyze the situation. are you in a position to date this girl? if so then your answer is get off your butt and stop being such a little pansy. if not then your answer is to stop torturing yourself and put it out of your head. am i right? am i being to harsh? i don't care! this is the mood i'm in today, and you all have to deal with it. either way, you should stop comparing her to a light bulb.