My Dear Violet B. SUCH QUESTIONS! IMRBO (In my rather bitter opinion) I'd say that said guy just isn't ready to carry out a mature relationship. Or that he's afraid to get too involved and retr...

sounds to me that a guy like that likes to see how much game he can spit, but doesnt want a relationship. so he likes the chase but hes not ready for a committment and responsibility.

observant young padawan...