Whoa whoa, no need for name calling for name calling only leads to hurt and pain.
In a world where we are inundated with such hostility from strangers must friends
engage in such actions of hatred.. share the love and expel the hate and pain..
let me relate to you a story when i was in lebanon last month.
i was walking amidst the meadows filled with truffles and a saw a man, a sad man with a kind gentle face and i said to him
' sir, is everything alright ? ' ... there was no answer .. after a few moments he said to me " i'm in pain "..
and i said to him "Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.
Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.
And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life,
your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy;
And you would accept the seasons of your heart,
even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields.
And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief.
Much of your pain is self-chosen.
It is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self.
Therefore trust the physician, and drink his remedy in silence and tranquillity:
For his hand, though heavy and hard, is guided by the tender hand of the Unseen,
And the cup he brings, though it burn your lips, has been fashioned of the clay which the Potter has moistened with His own sacred tears"

at this the gentle man stood up and embraced me as i have never been embraced by a man before
it felt a little gay. but, i didn't mind. doesn't make me gay does it?