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The subject came up in service today about how I came to be here and how I met my wife. We have a new pioneer couple in our congregation.. the brother is an MTS graduate and he said he would NEVER have cruised the conventions looking for a wife, but that's how he found his wife. He called her elders and she called his... similar to me and Trish.
I don't recommend my way is the best, just that it worked out for me! In any event you need to be sooooooooo careful!