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aviator Apr 26, 2004

Childhood is over. I know you make mistakes and no ones perfect. Seriously its not how you are, its who youre with. That reflects who you are. Your surroundings reflect that. Maybe its time to hang...

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

Maybe I'm misunderstanding what you're saying, and if I am I'm sorry. But I don't see why he has to go and hang out with older people who "have their head on straight." I don't think I know anyone with their head's on straight. We're all sinful and like you said we all make mistakes. It's not really always a..err the word is missing in my brain..something of whether you're older or younger. There are some older people who would lose their head if someone wasn't there to remind them to use it just as there are some younger people who somehow have it almost all together and are always ontop of things. I think it's the older people who sometimes say the most offensive and make the most mistakes socially and everyone excuses them because they're older and losing their minds. And then there are kids who are offensive A LOT and not by mistake but just because they're brutally honest and haven't learned the need to keep their mouth shut sometimes. So really..everyone, no matter their age, makes such mistakes for different reasons. I don't think it's a matter of hanging out with those who are better socially and don't make such mistakes, that's not something that can rub off on you it's just something you have to learn- tact.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

you're AWESOME hun!

aviator aviatorOG 2004

no im not saying that none of this is or isn't true. Just you know there comes that time to grow up and put things in the right place. Like since I have taken on more responsibility, I dont really care too much for the old stupidity of being young any more. I mean I still can get out the craziness when I want, just I got more practical things on my mind like how things work, special projects, service etc... Just it seems a lot of people never seem to get past the holy cow im young lets listen to loud music and have fun all the time. And thats sort of what I tend to draw away from now. Like you grow up and don't want to be stupid any more. But thats just how I see things. Its not for everyone. And the only reason I mentioned hanging with older ones is because I dont relate too well to young ones any more as I used to. I have fun but not the stupid fun I once had all though it was good while it lasted.

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

The thing is though, there was absolutely nothing in this journal that said that he wants to have fun all the time and listen to loud music, there's noting about having stupid fun or being crazy.... plus the age of the couple wasn't revealed, how do you know they're not 47 years old?? And the way the journal was written itself was kinda mature and showed a lot of emotion... And there is nothing wrong with having fun, heh. And just because you get "older" doesn't mean you should stop wanting to have fun, or stop having fun. I know a couple elders who get crazier than I do.

Also... older people sometimes say more inapropriate things than young people do, and also they get offended more easily and hold grudges against each other ... I duno, it's all relative. I don't think age has anything to do with ANYTHING really. It's all about how you feel and how you act, the year on your birth certificate has NOTHING to do with it.

aviator aviatorOG 2004

ok dudette. Click fivezeros history in the ez search. You will find plenty of indicating evidence that reveals he is like 23 years old or something like that.

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

right but the couple who's getting married, we have no idea how old they could be....

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

who said you can balance your dealings with practical things and have crazy fun. what life is about.. just focusing on boring stuff makes john a boring boy. you do your homework then you party. you pay your bills then you party.

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

i don't think you know who i am and i'm fairly certain you've never met me. but i understand what you're saying, even tho i think your tone and execution is condescending and a bit combative.

i made a mistake and i was takin' it hard. now, everything is ironed out and it was agreed upon that all parties involved overeacted a bit. thanks for heads up tho.

what's your real name?

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