Also, things have been done or said to me in the past, that have REALLY upset me. I have been thinking a lot about this lately, and I've found that it's part of the reason that I clash with some people. Not TOTALLY my fault that it's that way, but I will fully admit that I've been guilty of the not forgiving and forgetting thing in the past as well. But hey.....I'm an adult (even though not everyone sees it that way), I'm married, and being a mom has matured me in ways a lot of my friends don't/can't understand. There just comes a time when you have to say to yourself, "Self, grow up."