No, I don't feel that I have a double standard. I feel that EVERYONE here is entitled to express themselves in whatever manner they feel fit, as long as its not inappropriate. That's the purpose of this whole thing. I'm not saying that you CAN'T defend anyone or their actions, and no it doesn't bother me that you're defending the way she speaks to people (OR to me), but I do think that I have the right to defend myself and respond back to anyone that feels the need to say things to me (which apparently you did, because you took the time to write it all). Now, I don't know you, and you obviously don't know me, but if you did...you would know that I am not a passive person and I will not sit back and let someone say something to me without responding back in a way that I feel gets my message across.