* i think you can show the person and if its reciprocated then you can go from there and save any embarrassment
* there's a safe way to ask them out....let them know theres a group going and then invite them and if the 2 of yuo hit it off then you can "hang out" together
* all him, but you "know"
* i think him but then again, guys make this obvious
* ALL him
* ALL HIM