Yeah, it's important to make your own mistakes and learn from them but as a witness, we have to be extra careful. we can't just ignore eveyone and go about things the way we want to and then regret it a couple of years ago. (ie. divorce someone for the heck of it) I was in a relationship where i got really upset at people voicing their opinions and started to ignore them and almost made a huge mistake. if i hadn't taken a moment and realized that maybe they see something i don't, and hadn't stopped taking it personally, i'd be extremely miserable right now. instead...i'm very happy. i still take people's opinions into consideration, but in the end it's my decision.
EXCELLANT comment! you're right. it IS your decision. with everyone trying to give you good advice, it's hard not to start filtering people out because you just get worn out! one brother told me: you don't know what you're getting yourself into. well, i thought, who ever does? had he been more specific, it would have been better advice.
Exactly! I wouldn't mind advice. But just being vague and pointing out stuff, how does that help me? Confuse me perhaps and make me think so hard that my brain hurts.
you know we should all go ice fishing dressed as polar bears... i wonder if 2 people will ice skate across and one would be like " whoa whoa.. look at how those polar bear evolved.. they learned to fish rather than bluntly strike the fish with their large paws" and the other guy would say " look at how their mouths seem to have eyes in them.. and when they communicate the lips do not move. this is amazing lets go pee "
your a weeird little man!!