i can only speak for some girls, not all....
first of all the "wrong" (young and immature) girls act like that, the desire of being desired.
second, while most girls like being treated like a princess, we get a little creeped out if thats all the guy does is pursue us.
third, most girls don't like it when a guy wears his heart on his sleeve. this means that he can fall in love with anyone at anytime, he's in love with love. you want to feel special and the only one. so this can scare off a girl too
all in all, we like it if there's a challenge, we girls need to work for affection too, to know that we are worthy.
i agree with all that. yet it still makes no sense....you like the challenge...so why do guys bother to pursue...
yeah true. Most girls don't take excessive complimenting too well. However if you don't try and pursue from the beginning AKA come off strong, there is usually that thing called friends where you sort of find the right girl/guy for you. I find that usually the hard part is not finding the girl. Its finding someone you like after months and months and even years. I have had those girls that are like wow for the first 6 months and then splat they land in a puddle and its just not going to work. Basically it all depends on your personality. Its all about "Would I want me if I was a member of the opposite sex?" I have seen some really bad attempts by others who try to get by on one liner pick up lines and yadda yadda. That gets them about 10 seconds.
dude. i hate to say it but i don't agree with that at all. well i think it SHOULD be like that, but it isn't. i have a friend (female) who pulled the "i'm sorry, we're friends, if it wasn't like BAM! from the first time we met, then i'm not interested" on a friend of mine...that was SOOOOOOOO LAAAAAAME...(if you're reading this, i hope you know what you did was lame)
Wait no no no. Like you see I am not saying that being friends requires there being no sparks. Just a lot of people are so sparky at the beginning that it doesn't get them anywhere. A lot of rushers. Basically its not lame. You make friends and then sometimes it happens. Not, hey your hot, sparks fly boom boom boom. I have seen that way too many times to know that that usually ends up in tragedy. And regardless of it being lame it works well.