I don't know why it's the guys job to persue. Actually just thinking about it now, my mother persued her current husband, and it seemed to have worked for her.
But anyway, I've persued and crash and burned on a few occasions. It's something that's basically gotten me to the point of not wanting to persue anything or anyone. I start thinking when the time is right I'll know, when the person is right I'll know. I kind of want the roles to be reversed for a change.
well, i think there's a problem with whoever decided who gets which job. that's the issue.
let me tell you some stories. Whom so ever decided this will be shot when the male underground finds him her. And if said person is dead, then his offspring will pay..