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yay Jul 12, 2004

I dunno, maybe my wife and I are not that traditional, but I enjoyed taking her out and seeing her face light up when she tried on a ring or two. Maybe it wasn't because of the ring since she didn'...

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

That's what I was thinking. Take her ring shopping so she's not totally thrown off guard (and so you know what kind of ring she likes) and then just don't give it to her for a while so she kind of isn't expecting it as much.

yay yayOG 2004

Yeah defintely. The anticipation plus the suprise factor

rocksupastar rocksupastarFounder

and it woudl be the worst thing ever to buy her a ring that she totally despises...

aviator aviatorOG 2004

hmm yeah. I mean she and I have so little in common and so much in common. Its weird. Like we get along so well and its just one of those weird things. Anyways she probably wont get the ring till next year sometime :)

specialk specialkOG 2003

You could start dropping hints and asking questions now (like does she like gold or platinum, what cut would she prefer, etc.), and so she'll think it's coming up soon. Then you could still have the element of surprise, by her not knowing what the ring looks like, and you'll have thrown her off by waiting until....next year, you said? Yeah.
Anyways, if you ask the questions now, she'll think it's coming soon, and then when it doesn't happen, she'll not think about it as much. That's what I was getting at.

aviator aviatorOG 2004

yeah well so far i know she doesnt like gold. Neither do I. Gold reminds me of the 1980's and Scrooge McDuck.

perrin perrinOG 2004

My sister doesn't like gold either but she loves copper so my now brother in law actually made her wedding band out of copper for her and she loves it. My point being it doesn't matter what it's made of as long as it's what they are going to like.

aviator aviatorOG 2004

hmm intersting. LMO do you have any creative points?

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

what about platinum? platinum rings are gorgeous!!! i don't like gold but there's something about platinum that can make any ring look gorgeous!

malibu malibuOG 2001

platinum is so much nicer than gold. i just do not like gold. i like the platinum cuz it shines more. white gold is good but it costs too much. and speaking of price, why are diamonds soo much? i'd rather have a nicer honeymoon than a diamond. bands are just as nice.

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

platinum is very nice, but very expensive. if you are on a limited budget or would rather spend the $$ on a bigger diamond, consider white gold. also, find out what shape of diamond she likes-may be very importante.

specialk specialkOG 2003

This is a good point. My husband got me platinum, and spared no expense. But when I went to get his ring, I was on a slightly tighter budget than he was. So I went with white gold. You really can't tell a difference looking at it, and it was significantly less expensive.

aviator aviatorOG 2004 specialk

I should get platinum for my teeth so I look like Nelly haha

socalgal socalgalOG 2003 aviator

psssst.....he has a gold tooth

aviator aviatorOG 2004 socalgal

haha gold platinum :) Actually its Juvenile with the crazy mouth

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