Yeah, I'm not sure why people need to always make suggestions. Like I would make suggestions to you guys, but I would in my mind view them as suggestions, not like you have to do it or anything. It's your wedding and your life and you are both ultimately responsible for it. But if you get some good suggestions along the way, analyze them, think them out and it they work, apply them. But also expect that a lot of people still may look at you and Mike as kids (you're not) and want what's best for you. Take it for what it is and like I said earlier, seperate the wheat from the chaff...