I think the past makes you who you are. I think you think things and are suspicious due to past events. I think the other person not only has the right to know these things, but should because they need to know you and who you are.

Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone you know keeps secrets from you and you from them? Can you really say your relationship has any kind of trust? Can you say you will really love them no matter what? And if you don't trust them enough to believe they will love you for who you are and have been, can they do the same?

I mean who here is perfect and hasn't done things we seriously will regret for the rest of our lives? However lines have to be drawn. It's not important to dwell on or get upset over things that have happened in the past. Enough from me for now...