personally, i like the choices ive made so far, i just dont like the idea of being measured by how ive handled things in the past or valued differently than someone else solely based on the number of relationships ive had. i dont see where endless preoccupation with the past gets you anywhere. move on.
although ideally speaking i stand by what i said in the crush thread: one long term relationship should suffice...practically speaking, chances are you are not the first relationship in someones life and if you are the first relationship chances are you arent going to be the last. even i have to accept some learning curve. that will sound hopelessly jaded and unlike me to those who know me well, but i cant be wide eyed and wondering forever.
I agree with this. Many people cling to the past as a blueprint for the future and that's great for avoiding repeating mistakes. Only sometimes it's used as a way to make excuses for restrictive and even destructive behaviors that are ingrained and hard to fix. I DON'T agree with that. Look to the future, don't let "complexes" brought on by past trauma hinder you or anyone you're in a relationship with.
wow, i actually said something worthy of agreement instead of mocking. i must check that.
aw, i nean no harm, sensetive one
This is true. Under that saracstic disguise is a very nice person with a big heart. :)
